How do you help a friend with lack of confidence who remains oblivious after realizing her boyfriend has cheated on her over and over again? This is the case of ALL my friends. They're smart, beautiful women, in college with decent jobs, dating pricks, drop-outs, unemployed men who all they do is manipulate them and put them down. It is so frustrating seeing my friends cry over these pricks and forgiving them days later! How can I open their eyes so they can see what I see?!!