My ex and I have been trying to work things out but now he tells me that he wants to have an open relationship. Supposedly this would be the "test" to see if we are meant for one another. I found out he was dating some girl briefly after he told me about his want for an open relationship. Now he wants to still date her but still have sex with me. He said if he ends up developing strong feelings for her that he will end things with me. I asked if he would just discard a five year relationship "just like that" and he looked away.
I was so pissed that I told his sorry ass off. I feel as if he doesn't appreciate/value me in the slightest, especially knowing that I love him and want us to work out. Why would he bring some other person into this if he loved or even cared for me?!?!