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He Only Wanted Me Sexually

"I Care For Him as a Person, but He Only Wanted Me Sexually"

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So I met a guy at work like a month or so ago. Where we work we can transfer to another company at any time. Anyway, we would talk regular just like two people working together. As the weeks passed we felt more comfortable around each other and talked more along the lines as friends.

One week ago he found out that he was going to get transferred to another location. The week before he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. He texted me the next day. We didn't stop texting for the whole day. When I saw him at work he would act normal around me, but when he would text me after work he would say the sweetest things to me.

This last Thursday was his last day at work, but the whole week we have been texting nonstop. What's different is that he would text sexual stuff the most. At first I went along with it here and there. But he was just too sexual, like making remarks about me in that way. So I asked him if he just saw me as a sexual object, and he said no, but that he was very comfortable with sexuality. I replied that it was just him being himself, but that he talks about it all the time. He never answered me back.

I'm not even sad or mad that he didn't, it's more of disappointment because I thought he was better than that, and I thought he saw more of me than just my body. I mean, I really started to care for him. I don't know if in a romantic way or just as person/friend, but right now I'm so disappointed in him. Do you guys think that we'll ever have contact again or whatever this was is now done?

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