I met a guy off of eharmony.com. We have had a decent handful of dates and I really dig the guy. Everything has been, well easy. He calls, makes plans, communicates . . . he has a lot of qualities that I would like in a guy for a long term relationship. So the other day I noticed on eharmony that we have mutual Facebook friends. so I sent a request. on his fb wall, he recently added a friend who's profile picture is of her . . . and him. To my utter shock! She's basically on his lap. Then the other day he sent a group message to me and 2 other numbers, one of which belonged to the girl from his fb. I can't imagine someone being this dumb, but my question is should I call him out? I don't want to assume the worst and have it be like, his COUSIN or something. But would it be too much if I were to confront him with my concern? And if so, do I wait until I see him next? Or casually ask via text? I suppose if I get no response I'll have my answer . . . HELP!