It's a sad fact that it can take a woman much longer to climax during sex than it can for a man. If we're not that into it from the start, 30 minutes can go by and we're not even close to orgasm. The guy can try every trick he's got to get you excited, but sometimes, it's just not gonna happen.
At this point you have a few choices:
- You can try some more and hope for the best.
- You can throw in the towel and tell your man to just go for it (there's always next time).
- You can let your man finish and then go to the bathroom and take care of it yourself (if you think that may be possible).
- Or you can FAKE IT (like Meg Ryan did in the diner in When Harry Met Sally, and make your guy think it was the best sex you've ever had!
Personally, I would have a hard time faking it, not because I think it's wrong, but because I really don't think I could pull it off - knowing me I'd end up laughing in the middle, plus, I wouldn't want to start a trend in the bedroom where I end up having to fake it all the time with my partner never really knowing how to turn me on. So what I want to know is...