So Friday night I went on a second date with this very good-looking guy. We have tons in common and chemistry is crystal clear. However, because this guy is so handsome, putting two and two together and you are bounds to get a ladies' man. For that reason, my intention was to have my guard high up. Well things got pretty intense at the end of our second date and I ended up having sex with him even after I told him it was too soon. We talked about it and sure enough the deed was done. But now I still want to have him around. Not for a relationship just yet, but I'm really hoping to not be "tooted and booted." Any suggestions as to what I should do? Or is it all done with?