I have been seeing this guy for way too long. Over a span of many years. There has always been a reason as to why he didn't want to make it official. Either he was too busy, bad timing, blah blah blah. He tells me we are exclusive and he isn't open to the possibility of anyone else but won't make it official. I feel like I have waited too long and it's not fair for me to wait around when I can find someone who will be official with me. Things have been rocky lately mostly because I feel disassociated from him. He runs hot and cold with his communication consistencies and his affections. We had a serious talk about things and he wants '''some time'' to think about things and then we can talk about making it official or not. Should I hang around or move on?