I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, well was, I never cheated on him, never denied him sex, or anything else. I went out the other night with my best friend and other people we knew, and he knows. Unfortunately he was working like he always is, his friend saw me with a guy we all know dancing and drinking of course. Well at one point in the evening this guy decides to go in for a kiss, I however pushed back.
Later I called my boyfriend and I told him, and he said his friend had already texted him and told him and said I did not pull back fast enough. I love him; no other girl is going to put up with all the BS he puts me through, working all hours of the night, never shows up for special occasions at my parents' home because he is working, sleeps all day, and when he is off he does not even want to go out. I can't say there is not a chemistry between me and this guy that kissed me, but I don't see him in that way. How can I quit looking like a fool and begging him to forgive me over a kiss that was not my fault? Do you think there could be more to this, like he is tired of being with me and this is his way out?