Group Therapy: Help! My Boyfriend Has Lost Interest in Me "I've been with my boyfriend for one year and 10 months, and we haven't had sex in 5 weeks . . I feel like I'm the one who is calling and texting him etc and he does not do the same . . . I need to know the answer. I feel he is losing interest in me." Want to give her advice? Join our Group Therapy group and tell her what you think is going on.