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First-Date Tips From Modern Dating Book

What You Should (and Shouldn't) Know by the End of a First Date

Modern Dating: A Field Guide, a collaboration between writer and blogger Chiara Atik and HowAboutWe cofounders Brian Schechter and Aaron Schildkrout, is jam-packed with real-world advice on courtship for singles in this modern dating jungle of sexting, online dating apps, and Google searches. But while the guide tackles these new technologies and the complications of contemporary dating, it's also full of sweet and simple dating rules that ring true no matter what decade you were born in.

Here's just one helpful excerpt from the book on first dates:

10 Things You Should Know at the End of a First Date

  1. If he's gainfully employed
  2. If he's cheap (as opposed to thrifty, which is fine)
  3. If you have at least one thing in common
  4. If you think he's funny
  5. If he's smart
  6. If he's insecure
  7. If he has a kid
  8. If he seems genuinely interested in you
  9. If he's polite
  10. If he talks about himself the whole time

5 Things You Shouldn't Know

  1. How much money he makes
  2. How awesome his ex is, and why they broke up
  3. What he's like when he's really drunk
  4. How many other dates he's been on lately
  5. How hard he's working to overcome any issues/psychological problems/setbacks
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