Family Holiday Advice

"My Mother Is Emotionally Abusive"

"I'm 26 years old and still live at home. I've never moved out and have always been close to both of my parents. Well now I've been dating my current boyfriend for six months. He's 28 and has his own apartment. I really want to spend the night at his place, but I know how she's going to react if I do. There's times when I go out with him at 4 pm and come home at 11 and she scowls at me and says that I have no respect for her or myself."