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"Facebook Is Getting in the Way of My Relationship!"

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So this is a topic that I'm sure soooo many people have comments on. My issue is that I CAN NOT STAND FACEBOOK!

I must admit when I was in college I was active on it. That has changed. My college boyfriend was outed when he left his facebook open on my computer and I saw msgs to and from the girls he was cheating on me with. That left me scared. 

My current boyfriend is a great guy. BUT last year, a few months into the relationship I caught him "cheating" on me via fb. He was finding random girls and discussing sexual things with them, as well as asking girls he knew about their boobs, etc. I confronted him with this and he apologized like crazy, said it was immature blah blah. He doesn't do anything like that anymore. So after that, he ghosted on FB for a while, only posting things every few months. Now, he is all of a sudden back into fb and of course that raises my suspicions because of what happened last year. Hes been posting things like crazy over the past few weeks, and his ex-gf is suddenly back on FB and "liking" things the minute he starts posting. 

I confronted him yesterday, asking why he was all of a sudden going fb crazy and he said he "really likes to post pictures to share with my friends and family". I understand that many many people use it, but all that's come of it for me has been heartache. Now he checks it all the time, when he first wakes up, multiple times throughout the day, etc. I understand that many people do this, but I DON'T WANT A MAN WHO DOES THIS. When we woke up on Sunday morning the first thing he did was check fb. I can not deal with this. 

Has anyone experienced anything similar?! Any advice (without calling me crazy or insecure, blah blah)

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