Does Boyfriend Want to Hook Up With His Girlfriends?

Group Therapy: My Boyfriend's Girlfriends

Updated 03/19/11 10:47 PM · Posted 03/17/11 3:05 AM by Tres Community · 17 comments

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My boyfriend told me that he's always had a lot of girl friends. He has guy friends also, but I think girls just feel comfortable around him, because he's such an easy going, nice guy who is easy to joke around with. He rarely hangs out with them, at least since I've known him (4 months).

I told him that I have a good number of guy friends too, because I love sports and other guy stuff. He said something like, "I'm sure any of your guy friends would jump at the chance to hook up with you." And I said, "Well, even if they would, that wouldn't happen. Ever." He said that there are "probably 6 or 7" of his girl friends that he considers attractive, but wouldn't hook up with. Which means . . . there are some girl friends that he WOULD hook up with.

That makes me very uncomfortable. I completely trust him, and know he wouldn't do that to me, but I can't help but feel like he shouldn't be hanging out or talking to those friends. I feel like he'd be thinking, "Man, if I was single, I'd be all over that" when hanging out with them. Am I wrong or overreacting? Should I say anything to him?

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