Do Tell: Is Your Sex Life All Fireworks or Less Than Explosive?

July 4, 2008

We all dream of meeting someone wonderful to love. Someone with a zippy sense of humor, someone who's caring enough to bring us soup when we're sick, and someone smart enough to share an interesting conversation with. It helps if you find him attractive, and it really helps if your time in the bedroom is all about thrilling passion and fireworks. So I'm wondering how you would rate your sex life right now. Do tell, are things better than ever under the sheets, or are you pretty unsatisfied with the lack of excitement and pleasure?

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littleblonde 4 years 15 weeks

honestly, it's great. every time is different and fun and i still get excited about it after a year.

xojennifer 4 years 45 weeks

mm :)enough said? haha.

xojennifer 4 years 45 weeks

mm :) enough said? haha.

Fallen85 4 years 45 weeks

I think that if my boyfriend got everything he wanted in bed but wouldnt reciprocate I would dump his selfish and lazy a$$. It wont get better, ever. Only worse. Ladies, do you really want to go the rest of your life with a selfish lover? I wouldnt. My ex was selfish. Everything went the same way, me on my knees for a while and then me on my back. "Get it up, get it in, dont mess my hair-do" Style. Awful. My boyfriend now... amazing. Every time is different and exciting. Yesterday we had sex 5 freakin times throughout the day and every single time was different and suprising. I love him so much... aww. Never Settle.

Fallen85 4 years 45 weeks

I think that if my boyfriend got everything he wanted in bed but wouldnt reciprocate I would dump his selfish and lazy a$$. It wont get better, ever. Only worse. Ladies, do you really want to go the rest of your life with a selfish lover? I wouldnt.My ex was selfish. Everything went the same way, me on my knees for a while and then me on my back. "Get it up, get it in, dont mess my hair-do" Style. Awful.My boyfriend now... amazing. Every time is different and exciting. Yesterday we had sex 5 freakin times throughout the day and every single time was different and suprising. I love him so much... aww.Never Settle.

Fallen85 4 years 45 weeks

nutella2683 4 years 45 weeks

I've got the same situation as a1stbornunicorn.. explosive. Loves it. :)

jammabam92 4 years 45 weeks

its definitely not as great as i hoped it would be. the sex life is totally one-sided...its like whatever he wants or wants me to do for him i do it...but vice versa? NEVER...8(

Fallen85 4 years 45 weeks

hehe Meike, you go girl!

Fallen85 4 years 45 weeks

hehe Meike, you go girl!

Meike 4 years 45 weeks

Fireworks. Apparently, my hubby and fallen's bf have something in common.

appreciated 4 years 45 weeks

Currently very unsatisfied. I just haven't felt like doing anything or been attracted to him physically much lately. I'm sure things will change. We've just gone through a big transition and are still waiting for the dust to settle. But it's hard when he gets literally angry if I turn down sex.

kmh5424 4 years 45 weeks

Excellent for the first time EVER. Have only been with bf for six months, but quite honestly, he is the only man I have ever been with where I just want him all the time. LOL. Not that he seems to mind.

JaimeLeah526 4 years 45 weeks

I'm 50/50 on this one. We've been doing new and fun things, which is great but we've also been having less sex overall. I'd still say it's great though.

Kristinh1012 4 years 45 weeks

Same here GlowingMoon, 11 years and we have great sex. I love that after all this time we are still so attracted to one another.

kia 4 years 45 weeks

Fireworks for a few years now. We don't do it all the time, there are waves, but they are good waves. I am working a lot away from the home these days... 7 days home, 7 days away. I am home this week and we have an 7 for 7 goal that has been a whole lot of fun attempting to reach. Kapow!

GlowingMoon 4 years 45 weeks

We've been together for over 10 years, and our sex life is excellent. We truly enjoy each other in that way.

divinedebris 4 years 45 weeks

My sex life is good, well not right now but in two weeks when my husband gets home from Iraq it will be better, much better.I can't wait to see him! Before he left our sex life had slowed down considerably we used to have sex all the time and then we both were having problems at work and I was having a really bad time emotionally so our sex life suffered but we're back on track now. Even if there isn't a lot of sex, there is always a lot of cuddling and touching, so we're always affectionate to each other.

divinedebris 4 years 45 weeks

My sex life is good, well not right now but in two weeks when my husband gets home from Iraq it will be better, much better. I can't wait to see him! Before he left our sex life had slowed down considerably we used to have sex all the time and then we both were having problems at work and I was having a really bad time emotionally so our sex life suffered but we're back on track now. Even if there isn't a lot of sex, there is always a lot of cuddling and touching, so we're always affectionate to each other.

jennjennnbubba 4 years 45 weeks

if my sex life were a firecracker, I would be a dud!! :rotfl:

gossipqueen 4 years 45 weeks

After 6 years...all I can say...BOOOOOM!!! a lots of sparkles!!! :evil:

anna_muffin 4 years 45 weeks

My sex drive is kind of dried up right now, so most of the time it's just okay...when I get in the mood though, the fireworks are definitely there.

sassy_chick 4 years 45 weeks

It comes and goes. Sometimes it blows my mind, and others I wonder why we bothered. I think that's real life, though. It's not always going to be fireworks. Other things get in the way.

elizabethsosewn 4 years 45 weeks

I'm in my first working FWB relationship right now, and it's never been better. the sex is great [i still don't orgasm, but that's a different, long, story] and i mean best sex of my LIFE great.

elizabethsosewn 4 years 45 weeks

I'm in my first working FWB relationship right now, and it's never been better.the sex is great [i still don't orgasm, but that's a different, long, story]and i mean best sex of my LIFE great.

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