Do Tell: How Many Men Have You Dated at the Same Time?

November 16, 2007

You've heard me say, on numerous occasions, that you have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince, and in a previous poll, 54 percent of you agreed that dating multiple people at once is a good idea. Why waste time, right? While I've never felt comfortable seeing more than one person at a time, let me live vicariously through you. Ladies, do tell: How many people have you dated at the same time?

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dikke kus 3 years 48 weeks

uh oh. I tried that double dating stuff before and became double trouble. I tried but karma got me everytime. I learned my lesson when two of them showed up and sat in my livingroom together. Remeber you should give your address just to one of them.

bellechic 5 years 24 weeks

Three. It's really hard to juggle them, especially on the weekends. But, I wouldn't advise it- in the end you can only date on guy.

2hot2 5 years 26 weeks

6!!!!!!!! And I don't regret it =)

chicaparati17 5 years 26 weeks

2 at once..when I was young and single! It was very fun!

melda 5 years 26 weeks

three of them live in London wow if i wasn't that stupid when younger i would move to London with one of them lol oh and they are geek boys like studied one in oxford and other in prince college or queens college i don't remember ah they wouldn't guess if i myself didn't tell them uhm

melda 5 years 26 weeks

Four.. and i was so stupid that even told them about one another and he was soooo mad and like heart broken? it was really really funny situation now i really like to talk about them with my current boyfriend but then he will think i am doing that same thing with him and i don't want lose him lol oh they where very handsome rich sexy young boys i loved them all and they were like in love with me hehe they still sometimes call me and i talk with them i laugh they say they don't want to talk about what i did to them but still kept my pictures and call me and write emails to me i love rich boys

jodie_ohlala 5 years 26 weeks

swtsunkisses88 5 years 26 weeks

I went on dates with 3 people.. but nothing really emerged out of one of them. So I basically just stuck it to the two until things got more serious with one, and then i kept my relationship with the other strictly friends only. It was really emotionally exhausting, and I dont think I would do it again. Afterall, I wouldnt like to find out a guy Im going on dates with is taking multiple girls out!

laurafox 5 years 26 weeks

Three. It was exhausting but really fun :-D

designerel 5 years 26 weeks

I dated two at a time, and stopped seeing one when I realized I like the other more. Would I do it again? Probably not... even though I know it's best not to get emotionally invested in just one guy, dating two at a time was just too hectic for me.

stbhms4243 5 years 26 weeks

I dated 2 guys at the same time, but I was honest with both of them about it. I told them that I liked both of them, and wanted to see both of them. Neither was happy about it, but they went along with it. Once one of the guys put an insane amount of pressure on me to sleep with him, I cut it off with him. I told him I wasnt going to sleep with him, and he didnt respect that. That helped me decide that the other guy was the right one for me.

n_i_k 5 years 26 weeks

vanyvrgs 5 years 27 weeks

Only for about a period of give or take a year did I ever date more than one guy at once -- sometimes 3 at a time. I could not keep track and then told myself one at a time. Works best for me!

sparklestar 5 years 27 weeks

I've had some "crossovers".. naughty me. I've never gone beyond kissing when there has been more than one on the scene though.

TheMissus 5 years 27 weeks

When I dated casually, I would "see" about three different guys at a time. But eventually one would win out.

CaterpillarGirl 5 years 27 weeks

Never dated two people at once. Its too emotionally confusing.

Marci 5 years 27 weeks

Well, dating and having a relationship are two entirely different things. Dating is just that; going out on dates with different people, hoping to meet someone to have a relationship with. And for me, dating did not include sex. That's saved for real relationships. I dated 3 guys at the same time at one point. I got a kick out of it at first, but after awhile I realized I was starting every sentence on a date with 'Did I tell you this already?' because I couldn't remember what I'd talked about with who. That was it for me. I found it too confusing to date more than one person at a time.

lickety split 5 years 27 weeks

2 that i saw every week (i met 2 great guys, impossible i know). but in college i worked at the medical school cafe my sr. year and it was a dating dream. all these med students would come in and i'd have lunch with one of them just about every day and i'd go out on date maybe 3 or 4 times a week on average with different ones. but none of them had time for a relationship, they would constantly cancel because they were on call and got called in, studying, families wanted to see them, etc. it was a nice situation because i had just broken up with a serious boyfriend and i didn't want anything heavy. and the guys just wanted a dinner date, someone to talk to once in awhile on the phone. all of them were really nice guys. i really recommend this as a way to meet men, no pressure at all. when i went off to grad school one of the guys tracked me down through a friend that was at the same school and we ended up dating for awhile. occasionaly i run into one of these guys and it's fun to see how they are doing and catch up. one of them is a bizillionaire because of lazak (however you spell it) surgery but never got married. another one has 8 kids!

Sarah10563 5 years 27 weeks

I saw 2 guys at the same time last summer, they both considered the relationships very serious, and thats when I had to cut one of them off, the anxiety of seeing one when I was out with another were too much for me to handle, I don't know how some girls can do it, you have to be very organized and devious which I am not. It was definitely a one time experience for me!! haha.

ThePerfectScore 5 years 27 weeks

Bascially one at a time..... But even when Im in a relationship I'm on the prowl for something better....But I would never blatantly cheat... Id have to break it off with the 1st one before I really pursued someone