I guess I'll be the first to comment - I've kissed a few girls in my lifetime (mostly in college) and had fun doing it, but it was more about the thrill of attention and then unknown/"forbidden" than anything else. I'm definitely attracted to men. I do think that women are very capable of having girl crushes and appreciating each other's beauty more openly than men.

*the unknown

Yep, I'm bisexual and have loved both sexes. Although I have encountered a lot of people on both sides that ask me why don't I just pick a side. Why?

Nope, and not really interested in "experimenting" either. This is an interesting topic though. Definately something that has become more accepted.

Well yes, a couple of my close girlfriends and I just kissed, we were drunk It was similar to what dm8bri said - the thrill of it, and the unknown. I had my fun with it then, and I'm done experimenting now. I like men, always have, always will!

Nope. Not interested at all. In fact, I really cannot stand women one bit... I could never imagine being "with" one or in a relationship with one. But I do believe in equality for all, so whatever floats your boat!

One of my besties is gay and we were talking about this Tyra episode. She is very against straight girls pursuing things with a lesbian or bi girl, because it can't work out. She had a girlfriend in college who was straight but fell for her. They lasted a while, but the girlfriend left her for a guy. They got this whole relationship going and my friend got invested emotionally, but there was never a chance for it to work to begin with. She was really hurt by that and won't look at straight girls now. Apparently, straight girls are a lesbian's nightmare.

Women are sexualized so much in society today, to the extent that even straight women, in my opinion, are conditioned to find images of women visually stimulating. But there is a reason that straight women identify as straight. As soon as the crush wears off, they notice that their heterosexual needs are unfulfilled. There is no way for a woman to fill those. And the straight girl leaves for a guy.

I've never been with a woman before, and I just don't think I could. Even if I could, I know I could never give up guys. Why would I start something with someone when there is no chance for a long term relationship? That just seems cruel, really.

I've definitely thought a girl to be insanely hot before but I dont think I would ever do anything besides a kiss with one. I think if I did then I wouldnt be straight, I would be bisexual.

Nope, never wanted to do it, and I never will do it. I think that there is a lot of people who think it's sexy to watch girls go after girls. If it's forced, and something you do just to look cool or sexy, then that is so lame. Be with women because you actually like women -- not because you want people to think you're sexy for making out with one.

No, and I don't plan on it.
I have had girl crushes. I just really admire a truly beautiful woman, and not celebrities, not the airbrushed centerfolds.
Ultimately, I think the only love I'd ever have for a girl would be platonic or familial.

I was curious for a long time about what it would be like to be with a woman. When it finally did happen, it was everything I thought it would be : sensual, exciting, and fun. Both of us knew we loved men, but the experience was well worth it. We've remained close friends to this day.

Chrstne, I agree. It seemed like every freshman in HS was bisexual the 4 years I was in High School... they are for the "wrong" reasons though. For attention. If you are truly bisexual you most likely aren't because you are an attention wh*re, its just because you like both sexes! Or, if you are a lesbian- its because you are attracted to and like women and want to be in a relationship with one...

Young women are so objectified and/or overly sexualized in society that it is now "cool" and "in" to excite someone for making out with another woman, even if you aren't really into it. And some women are just trashy about it, anyway.

I think Tyra had a seperate episode about that before; straight girls who went and made out with other women at bars purely for attention. They admitted it too. They called themselves something really lame like barsexuals. I was really pissed off; these women were in well into their mid 20's for god's sake. It's just a completely juvenile thing to do.

Like some of you I've thought a girl to be super hot once or twice before; maybe even fantasized it a little in my head, but I've never actually done anything. Too reserved I guess.

I hate chicks that do it for all the stupid attention seeking reasons! Because then if I actually like a girl people assume I'm in that stupid attention seeking group. So lame!
Do it because you are curious(who knows maybe you do like it, just don't pretend to be lesbian or bi if you don't know for sure) or because you like women,NOT because you are trying to impress drunk guys at a bar. This pisses me off to no end.

le romantique, I agree. In high school it was definitely as if people were "bi" just so they can attract a guy. I noticed it got worse outside of high school -- like, people who were obviously straight in college just randomly making out with girls in the hallways at college or at a bar because their crush was around. Or even at clubs, if they see a hot guy, the girls start making out.

I think it's a shame because bisexuality isn't about being risque or getting attention, it's about having the capability to be attracted to and love members of each sex. I am not bisexual, but I feel insulted that a lot of people make it seem like being bisexual is all about sex and attracting people, when in reality, it's not.

If you want to have sex with a guy -- kiss the damn guy, flirt with the guy. Don't flirt with chicks and make out with chicks because you think that will get you a guy. That is SO lame. Seriously. If you're straight, act straight. You don't see lesbian women walking around making out with dudes to attract girls. It's not that different -- except you see straight women acting all into other women on stupid shows on MTV and in movies.

No and i've never had the desire to be with one either....

Chrstne, MTV added to the ridiculousness! Ha, yeah College... I'm getting my masters degree online now, but i went to a predominately male college (Full Sail University, AKA: Full Male) so many of the few females there were EXTRA trashy and were magically all bi... they loved that attention. So glad to get out of those pathetic, immature scenes...

Anyway, I just need to keep clarifying that I have nothing against bisexuals or gay/lesbians- Anytime I post about the attention seeking faux-bisexual women on blogs or in general, people always think I'm a "hater", just wanted to clear that up again.

I have made out with 2 friends and it wasnt for the attention, but I did like it. Im not gay but I would so do more...

Romantique: Hope you don't think I was refering to you! Nope, you are on the same side as me, hating on the stupid attention seekers. I was just saying I hate the faux-bi chicks because they give real bi chicks like me a bad rap.

No, I wasn't talking about you, don't worry :] It just always happens to me because I generally don't care what I say...and I have a weird sense of humor, so some people think I'm an @sshole since they can't hear my sarcasm via the internet. haha. But I don't think I infused my humor in my comments this time anyway, its just a 'touchy' subject.

Nope. While I find females attractive (In general, I find women to be the better-looking sex), I am sexually aroused by men. That's my brain chemistry. That's how I'm wired.

I like men, but I also think it might be fun to experiment once or twice. As long as all parties know what's going on emotionally I don't see a huge problem relationship-wise.

One of my friends is gay .... maybe it's just the women she dates, but I don't think I could stand the drama full-time.

Attention seekers need to find a new way to get attention. Faux-bi is lame.

No.
I mean I think some women are hot, and say it but I don't have a sexual desire towards women.
That may not make much sense...

Yup, had a threesome with the boyf. It was an awesome experience and I'd do it again. I wouldn't say I'm bisexual because I'm not attracted to women, but being with my man and a woman at the same time was very hot.

I've been attracted to women for most of my teenage and adult life just never acted on it. I don't know why, nervous or just never met that special girl.. I'm married now and really don't have the option to explore. ha.

Nope never had an interest to. I don't knock others that do/have.

Yes, I have. I think women are very sexy, and I've never kissed one to make a guy interested, but I would say that I prefer men.. just depends how sexy the woman is!

i was curious in my early teen years and my best friend and i ended up kissing quite a few times when we were 15 to see what it was like, since then i've experimented here and there but i've only had relationships with men. i'm generally more inclined towards men, but i do find myself sexually attracted to women. so far i've never considered a relationship with a woman -- but never say never.

I've "experimented" innocently enough as a few people have mentioned, but it was when I was younger, and in retrospect -- definitely for the attention! Truth be told, I have just never really questioned my sexuality or been seriously curious (like actually pursuing any kind of relationship) about my own sex. Whatever, and to each his own. I don't think there are any rights or wrongs when it comes to sexuality, as long as everyone is safe and upfront.

Yeah the whole chick kissing chick thing kinda grosses me out. I really hate going to a bar and watching two girls make out to attract some scummy guy. When Katy Perry's I kissed a girl song came out, I wanted to shoot myself.

I'll be the first one to admit when a girl is pretty but I have no interest in experimenting. I love men!

I am bisexual and enjoy both sexes! I am now in a relationship which is likely to lead to marriage so unless HE says it's OK to do something like this then it would never happen. I'd never cheat on him so my girl kissing days are over.

I am bisexual so yes. I love woman.

my boyfriend and I have talked a lot about trying a threesome. It's something that he's (obviously) always wanted to try and I think it would be kind of exciting. I'm definitely curious about the idea, but I don't think I would ever do anything with another girl if he wasn't a part of it. The problem that we're having is trying to find another girl who wants to join. I'm surprised that it's difficult to find someone.

WOW, there has been some interesting comments made about people and there sexuality! Me personally, I never new if I was going to experiment or not in this category! When I met my husband of 5 yrs. he kinda showed me a way to have fun! Some how we ended up on this subject and found out that we both thought it may be interesting. I had a really cool friend so when I asked her, she excepted! Once everything was in order we had our fun and really enjoyed it! Now that were married it's not like were into doing a lot of experiment with other people, we just like to find thing's that make US happy! I don't judge people on there likes or dislikes but I do think it should stop once you've settled down for the family life! As the saying goes........
To each it's own!!!!

i've kissed women. but never acted upon it i think im just shy, or afraid i guess. lol. i think women are beautiful but i dont think i can take the jump. i dont know.help me. lol

yea, in college.

It is difficult to find a third party because threesomes are the stuff of fantasy. People would entertain the thought in their heads but then when it actually comes down to it? Humans are too emotionally complicated to be able to carry through a threesome.

You should try looking on dating or hookup websites. I bet there are LOADS of girls on there who would be up for it. My ex is currently searching okcupid.com for a third party...

Of course I can appreciate the beauty of a naturally beautiful woman. (Not the plastic, fake hair, fake boob, makeup, and and the works) but that doesn't mean Im "curious", "bi", "gay". I love men! I've kissed a chick on the lips before. But we were just being dumb. It didn't sexually intrigue me at all. Girls could never give me butterflies like a man could. Why is it more acceptable for a woman to experiment, but when guys do it, its repulsing? Double standard i guess.

i love men, but have been with a few women. it is a senesual feeling having another woman doing what your used to having done by a man.im not talking hard core lesbo stuff like strap-ons just oral.it is a wonderful experience.im sure my man would not hesitate to watch,maybe one day.