When we find out that our ex is dating someone new, it’s common to be curious about all the differences and similarities between their relationship and your old one. Even if you’ve completely moved on, an ex’s new flame is always a source of, at the very least, a moment’s thought.
However if the relationship with your ex was particularly terrible, learning that he’s seeing someone new can cause worry. It’s easy to wonder, does he treat her better than you? Or worse yet, will he do to her what he did to me? While many claim competition is the nature of female relationships, I think most women want to protect other women from hurt and harm. So do tell, have you or would you contact an ex’s new girlfriend to warn her?