A Do or a Don't: Sexy Texts

October 30, 2008

Since texting is so common these days, it's definitely had an effect on dating. For some of my friends, flirting with their significant others via text during the day helps keep the romance alive at night! And sure, a couple of flirty texts here and there is one thing, but a steamy text session is another! I’ve actually had more than one person confess to me that they love getting frisky via text. Frankly, it seems a bit tricky to me — I guess you have to have a really good imagination! Have you engaged in naughty texts? Or is a text the last thing you think of as sexy?

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jadeycakes 4 years

DO! It's so much fun!

jadeycakes 4 years

DO! It's so much fun!

AirborneArmyGirl 4 years

hhm i like nasty texts lol they're fun if u dont do it all the time - random texts to ur guy are a nice surprise and if it gets hot it gets hot! Life's to short to worry about who will read them later,I say if I'm not f***ing you then why do i care if u see it?? Do what makes u happy

lina1205 4 years

Why did my comment come out three times?^^^^^^^^^^

lina1205 4 years

Its really fun. We usually dont "say" anything rly bad but we have our codes so its a do for us...lol

lina1205 4 years

Its really fun. We usually dont "say" anything rly bad but we have our codes so its a do for us...lol

lina1205 4 years

Its really fun. We usually dont "say" anything rly bad but we have our codes so its a do for us...lol

chatondeneige 4 years

I'm totally guilty of this! It's fun! I don't say anything that I would be ashamed if his friends saw, though. My friends grab my phone and sometimes look for a text for me while I'm driving - so why wouldn't he?

AstonishedPanda 4 years

They're fun. I trust my guy, and he makes sure to delete them the next day. He's pretty shy, and texting lets him let go a little.

AshleySherwood 4 years

My boyfriend and I live in different cities an hour and a half apart, therefore not lets us see eachother as often as we would like. Everyone morning we text just to say good morning and wish eachother a good day at work. It's cute, and simple, and make us smile. But also we send saucy lil text messages that deffinately keep us fired up till the next time we see eachother.

ilanac13 4 years

well i think that they can be ok at the right time. for me, my fiance was away for a week and neither of us are really phone people so it served it's purpose by texting :)

imamdgirl 4 years

I can't type on those stupid keypads. I would rather speak to him anyway.

baybelle 4 years

They're awesome! I use it for the hubby all the time and he loves it - did it lots when we were dating too ;-)_!

AlexE70 4 years

I think it's actually pretty healty, given the times we're in. Texting with your lover can be great and almost always leads to some excitement later on in the night! I know my inbox is full. And having said that, I'm not quite sure that came out the way I expected it to. :-O

heidi girl 4 years

MissJules5x, my thoughts exactly.

Muirnea 4 years

I think it's a great idea with someone you really trust not to show them around, etc. It helps when you can't be together for a while or just to do something different, like teasing each other, ha. :-P My bf is less experienced with sexual things in general than me right now though, so he's not quite up for that yet. He's worried about other people seeing them mostly I think, and I don't blame him. :)

PiNkY PiNk 4 years

missjules5x I agree with your second comment! I also agree with everyone who has said that there has to be a certain level of trust. so yea, definitely a do!

MissJules5x 4 years

the best is also when we are with our families and are with eachother but cant say what we are thinking so the texts are kind of our little secret. i love having that with him.

MissJules5x 4 years

my boyfriend and i do that all day while were at work and by the time we get home we are ready to jump on eachother... you have to really trust the person you are with and know that these messages wont be used against you in any way and will not be shown to anyone else.

bluestar 4 years

DO!! I love to send them and get them.

xoclirpa 4 years

I think they're fun!

meechie 4 years

SEXY TEXT ARE DEFINATELY A DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thelorax 4 years

Definitely fun, keeping in mind that texts CAN be pulled out like file folders by the phone company, NSA, or court order...or your phone (or the recipient's) could be lost/stolen/snooped through. I actually sent a few spicey texts to my husband (at 5 this morning, haha) but then, I don't really care who knows that I'm attracted to my husband!!!

psterling 4 years

Yes! Except once I drunk texted my best guy friend "You're hot and sexy!" Except I was drunk so it came out as "You're got and sexy!" And he's never let me live it down :-)

Mykie7 4 years

My husband and I send them to each other frequently. Though if I were just dating, I don't know that it would be the same. I think something like this requires a certain level of trust.

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