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DearSugar Needs Your Help: Should I Join the Threesome?


Dear Sugar and Flattered Fran Need your help!

Okay so I’m in a sticky situation. About 2 months ago, my best friend (I've known her since middle school) met the most amazing guy. He’s just my type, actually, blond curly hair, blue eyes, and has a runner’s body. He’s adorable but he’s an artist (I prefer the more professional type). He’s really spontaneous and adventurous. She tells me all these wild stories, and I’m really happy for them, but I have to say I’m a little jealous.

The other night I went out to a bar with them and we all got pretty tipsy. They walked me back to my apartment and I invited them inside to continue the festivities. We were all sitting on the couch, laughing and joking around, and my girlfriend looked at me and said something like "I love you. You're my best friend," and she went to kiss my cheek, but she totally lost her balance and ended up kissing my mouth." We fell over on the floor laughing about it, and I said "I love you too," and I kissed her directly on the lips, just to be funny. They stayed and we watched TV for a little while, and then they walked home.

I had completely forgotten about it until she and I had lunch a few days later. After we ordered, she told me that her boyfriend thought our kiss was really hot and he wanted to ask me if I would be interested in joining them in the bedroom - in a threesome.

I am not that adventurous in the bedroom, but something sparked my interest and I feel kind of flattered that they asked me. If I were to have a threesome with anyone it would be them, but I'm just worried that it'll make things weird between her and I after the fact. And what if they want to do it again and I don't want to? Or what if I start having feelings for my friend's boyfriend? What should I do?

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