I have been dating this wonderful guy for the last two months and we were going to get intimate for the first time last night. He goes on to tell me that he does not want to because he has HPV and does not want to infect me. Little does he know that I also have HPV. I didn't tell him because I'm embarrassed, but he was so honest with me. HPV — not warts, the one that effects the cells — is the one we both have.