I need some advice. I recently met a friend of my aunt's who is 9 years my senior. We spent the whole night flirting etc, I mentioned my attraction to my mother and father and they both said he is to old for me (I am 25 he is 34). I don't see the big deal at all and I am ready to go for it. My only problem is I am not sure how to approach this man because I rarely see him and he is friends with my family. Any ideas or suggestions? He is really an amazing man and I haven't felt this way about someone in a long time or is it a lost cause?