DEARSUGAR and Slipshod Sandy need your help. She and her new boyfriend used birth control however she is now pregnant and a fairly young age. She is both excited and scared about the baby, but she's not sure about the guy. Has anyone ever been in her shoes that can give her some advice?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past three months. We have been having sex and it appears that I am now pregnant. I am 18 years old and he is only 20 and he's already got three other children of his own.
I love him, but we've only known each other for three months to take such a huge step together and have a baby. The problem is that we used a condom but I guess that it broke. I am both panicked and scared at the same time and I don't know what to do about talking to him. I think I want the baby, but I am not so sure that I want him to be in my life forever. What should I do? Slipshod Sandy