My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We have more than our share of ups and downs. More downs than I can remember. I have been by his side through everything. I still question his faithfulness in the past, but these last few months he has been sexting this woman that he went to school with.
Now granted she lives over 1,000 miles away but he has told her he loves her. He tells me it means nothing and makes a joke out of the whole thing. He tries to play like I am all the sex he needs and it is only harmless flirting. I confronted her on FB and told her to back off, she messaged me back and said they are just friends and blocked me. That right there tells me that something is wrong with the picture.
I tried to rekindle the flame we once had and it was amazing. Then I found out that he was still texting her. I have asked him to tell her to get lost and tell her that he is happily married. He has not done it yet. I am not sure at this point what to do . I know that if the thought is there, sooner or later the action will be there. I should also add that we have a 4-year-old daughter together.