The first date was great (but I did end up getting kind of drunk so judgment not so great) but the second date . . . I felt weird around him. Some things he did were just a big turnoff and I just really don't want want to go out with him anymore and the thought of doing anything sexual with him makes me cringe (it's not about appearance — he's nice looking!).
Long story short, how do I tell this guy no more, when he's already asked me out for date three? I want to be kind but firm.