I have been dating a man exclusively for nine months, and he still has his online profiles visible but not active. We met online; however, I made my online profiles not visible after three months, but I noticed that he still has his visible. His profiles are not active. I know I can talk to him about it; however, I really want him to want to remove them without me having to tell him. Since he has left them up, I assume he is still keeping his options open or perhaps he forgot (doubt it) or perhaps there is a way he is still active on the sites (without it showing as active), and I am being lied to? We have discussed being exclusive and it is understood that we are only dating each other.