Boyfriend Wants to Be Friends

"He Wants to Be Friends"

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I'm gonna be short with this. Me and my boyfriend of one year had a pretty great relationship in the beginning and things started to go downward from there because of the messages that he would ask to females over the cpu playing some questionnaire game, which I thought was very immature. I'm 20 he's 22, I know that's young but we are really committed to one another. . . . So the problem is I would bring things up again from the past because I felt somethings were similar to the present and necessary, so yeah I'll bring it up. I guess it got to the point where he told me he missed being single because he didn't have to deal with all the things that he had now. He told me he wanted to remain friends because he still wanted me apart of his life and what not. But he also told me that he has been feeling this way a couple months back but never told me and for that reason, I told him I could not respect him for letting me know that ahead of time and said I did not want to be friends with him. In the process of him telling me this he said he doesn't see us getting married but I wasn't offended because I'm too young to even think about that. So If I'm as much to him as he says, why be friends?

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