I have been dating, or rather, living with my boyfriend for a year and half now. I have access to his emails, both gmail and Facebook (he gave me the password), and we shared the same computer. I opened up the computer with his emails still not being closed and I read the message thread he had with his high school sweetheart.
It is my fault that I read the exchanges, but I noticed that with the exchanges that he never mentioned my real name to his ex. Rather I was just "she" in every email. His ex asked about how we met (we met through a dating site) and he never responded to her. I am not sure if this is something that I should be concerned about, but this does bother me . . . and why is he still corresponding with his ex? I am the jealous type, but I understand the generic emails for birthdays and holidays, but they've been communicating almost every month, and my boyfriend's last email to her stated something about how there are things that will always remind him of his high school days with her and how they're one of his favorite times. I don't know what to do.