Is it wrong to go on a trip when your boyfriend doesn't want you to? I have a trip planned with some friends and he thinks it is stupid because it is a celebrity cruise. I told him about the trip before I purchased it and I knew he wasn't happy. I was debating on even telling him at first because it is a little ways away still. But I was honest and told him my intentions. He wasn't happy, but said that I could do what I wanted because we weren't married. Well it's a different story today. He's mad today because I knew how he felt and still did it, so now I'm selfish and am wasting money, which is my money. I'm not trying to hurt him at all by going on this trip, but to me it is just a fun time with my friends, who I don't get to spend that much time with anymore. He says he trusts me but I should listen to him and when I make choices like this, it makes him question our future together. He said that he won't break up with me over it, but he isn't happy. He also said that I should be going on trips with him, not my friends. I just want to do something for myself! I don't think it is a crime, but maybe it is? My friends that are going are all married and their husbands aren't throwing a fit over it. I don't know what to do?