Boyfriend Hooked Up With Girls on Vacation
Group Therapy: Boyfriend Is Hiding Evidence From His Vacation
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I have a boyfriend of 15 months. Surely you have a lot of trust by this point, right? Yes, I did trust him. But I'm not sure anymore.
Long story short, he recently went on a boys holiday about two months ago. A few silly pictures of him and his friends came on the Internet. And with some girls (at first I was very upset because they looked pretty "together"). He said nothing, and I trusted what he said.
Well . . . another month down the line, I'm on a friend's account and I find a TON of pictures with him and these girls (one in particular) on one of the girl's Facebook that he has hidden from me. TRUST HAS GONE.
It's not as if they're kissing in the pictures, but in the majority of pictures they're sitting next to each other, arms around each other etc. But, the actual pictures aren't the thing I'm upset about ( . . . well, a little) but the fact that he's felt the need to hide them from me. I've sent him a text because there's no way of me getting to his at 11 at night.
But even though I'm pure angry, I've made the text out to be very upset and trying to be understanding of why he'd do this.
I just would really like some advice on how I should handle this situation. I'm going to talk it over . . . but is it something that you'd break up over? I just feel sick because I feel as if he can't trust me. And that's the main thing I need in a relationship, trust.
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