Boyfriend Has Weird Fetish

Group Therapy: I Need to Spice Up My Sex Life ASAP

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I am getting married next month to this wonderful man who makes me oh so happy. However, our sex life is very dull. Here is my dilemma . . .

  • We are in our mid to late 20s and we have sex maybe once or twice a week.
  • At times, I feel like he has a very low sex drive and in the past when I have tried to surprise him by wearing something a little risque, it does nothing for him.
  • I have found out that he has some type of pantyhose fetish and I have looked on his computer and found that he looks on these sex site dedicated to pantyhose. Ive asked him to explain this fetish to me so I would better understand and meet his needs, but when I do, he gets embarrassed and shuts down.

Can anyone give me any advice?? As far as the low sex drive and pantyhose fetish thing?? I hear that the two things couple fight about the most are finances and sex. Considering we are getting married next month, I really don't want to start off on the bad foot. Not to mention, I would like to have sex on my honeymoon. Thanks in advanced.

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