There are two guys in my life, one with whom I share great sexual chemistry and an equally matched sex drive. He's respectful and interesting, but I doubt I'd ever want anything beyond a friends-with-benefits situation. I'm not as physically familiar with the other man, although I have no doubt we'd be a good match, and we're also very well matched mentally and emotionally. He's the kind of guy I'd want to enter a longterm relationship with — and I do want that with him. Problem is, he's fresh out of a relationship and I think he needs a bit of time to get over that.
I disclosed to the first guy that it most likely wouldn't be a longterm thing, so I'm wondering if it would be unethical to hook up with the first guy while giving the second guy some time to heal. I suppose I want to have my cake and eat it too, but I would never overlap guys or try to do anything manipulative. I have absolutely no sort of commitment to either one, and there's no chance of them finding out about each other.
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