Here's the background: he was engaged to her, that ended, and we started dating very soon after. About six months later, we moved in together, and I found out that he had secretly been emailing, calling, and seeing her from September to December — they even saw a romantic movie together! Nothing happened, but I only found out because I had a feeling something was up and looked through his phone a couple months later. I'm still trying to forgive him.
Fast-forward to today. We've been fighting for the past month or so, so I decided to look again. I found that there were no pictures of me in his recent image gallery, only of his ex, porn, and random stuff. There was also a draft text message he typed to her on his phone saying, "Can we talk?" What should I do? I've never snooped through another boyfriend's stuff before, but then again, I never had a reason to. I'm not sure how to go on from here because I moved and left my family and friends to be with him. Am I being too suspicious? Is it normal to go through pictures of your ex for weeks on end? Help!
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