Kind of tacky to me...

yuck.

through sheer coincidence, both my ex and my current trim everything up in there. They are both hairier types of guys and I think they do it because they are self-conscious about being too hairy, but I have to say I like it. Now when I see a guy with a bit of a bush, it is totally a turn off for me. Now, if they waxed it might be a little weirder!

I dated a guy a few years ago and he shaved IT ALL off down there! It was such a turnoff but thankfully my guy now doesn't. And that speedo in the picture - eww.

I think that's gross. I prefer my man have hair. My boyfriend shave down there but not completely which isn't bad. He's hairy all over, which to be honest is a turn on for me.

GROSS.

Cute pic Belle!!!

I'm sorry but I hateeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee hair.

ewwww

It's weird we have a double standard.

I kinda feel like if a guy is so obsessed with having his privates look perfect then that's weird. But it's typical and/or accepted for women to spend lots of time/money grooming.

So I guess even though I feel like it's weird I can't really incriminate the men without incriminating myself and many women at the same time.

Trimmed- absolutely necessary. Completely shaven- kinda looks silly.

I liek a little trim...but they are MEN! They need to have the hair to be manly!
I think it's sexy anyways

Why not? I'm sick of the double standards. It's a personal choice for both men and women.

ew, i mean if your like robin williams and hairy like a bear, go ahead a trim it, but normal dudes do not need to be messin around down there, its wierd

Trimmed, cool. Shaved or wax, not cool. Who is he? A porn star? lol. It's his preference and whatever the man chooses to do is his choice. I'll get over and get used to it.

i dont mind either way

I always hated that. Women are expected to shave/wax because it's "gross", but men are looked down upon if they groom as some women would.

I don't care what my boyfriend does as long as he doesn't let himself go and I'm sure that's the way he feels for me. I wax as a personal preference.

Some guys can get really hairy down there, and I have to say that I like it to be neat and tidy. Nothing too crazy. A trim can go a long way.

i'm happy when my boyfriend shaves his face.

he has to trim down there a bit, like most guys, because it gets long and itches or somthing. i don't know. i don't really ask.

I'm with kitkatherine on this...I just don't ask.

My boyfriend keeps it neat down there, he doesnt go all out and wax or anything, but..ya know.

Gotta trim it up. It does get gross, but I think hairy is sexy.
Some guys get carried away. I used to date this guy that suddenly had no hair at all--he just got carried away one day while grooming. I did enjoy it while inspecting everything. (Ha!) But it began to itch when it grew back. I mean, it itched me.

I think they need to keep up their gardens. And I'm not talking about waxing or shaving it all off...just keep the hedge trimmed. Oh, I so wish men could understand that women hate banana hammocks.

I love a man with a nicely tamed Manscape I'm not a 'hair' person, so a normal amount doesn't bother me, but it's way better when well-kept.

I appreciate tidiness... But it's not a real issue to me.

And I get really angry at people who expect women to not have any body hair whatsoever.

Tidy and trimmed is a must. Shaved is going a bit far IMO. I don't like the look when women shave it all off, either, though. :

I actually prefer both men *and* women to not be overly groomed downstairs. I am turned off by any element of phoniness, and it definitely fits into that category, for me. A bit of light trimming of length is okay, when it gets "in the way", if you know what I mean. lol I'm into human flaw, I think real is sexy.

NONONO NO! No trimming, no grooming, no nothing down there for men! Just be natural. Men are sexy because they are naturally fuzzier than women.

I didn't even know this term before now. I thought Manscape was a video game.

Thank lawchick!

The last guy I was with was HAIRY!! And I haven't gone back for more! If I'm putting in the effort to be well groomed, I expect the same.

No, no, no!!!

I dont like alot of hair on my men at all, its gross. But im not sure how id feel about a man shaving or waxing everything, a little hair is nice but a burt reynolds / david hasslehoff thing is.. ick. It is a double standard though... women " must" be bare and shaven while men let their bushes run rampent lol.

Umm, not to be crude, but if I'm hanging out down there, I want it neat and clean. Otherwise, it just icks me out a little.

trim it and keep it clean, please no shaving or waxing though...it's not necessary...

I hate hair... eww. I like for my man to be nice and clean. Trimmed would be fine, both me and my partner are fun and crazy we even have matching hedges Landing strip for both of us.. ha i know TMI but its fun.

Trimming OK, waxing or shaving everything off a little creepy and weird.

@ "banana hammocks"
Oh god BB, you gave me a good belly laugh! I too say keep it trimmed. My hubby keeps himself trimmed and I like that.

I don't really care for the idea of waxing down there for either gender.... not only does it seem necessary, can we say "oww"??

Trimming is good, waxing, not so much. I mean I don't wax; I don't want my man to wax.

Not into it at all (I guess unless he had a reason - like he was a professional swimmer or something).

Umm, if my guy expects me to be all trimmed/shaved/etc. down there, then he better be too. No double standards!!!! I don't like hair on me or my guy, so if I have to do all that work, then he does too. I'm not going to be giving him everything he wants if he won't do the same for me...

My fiance wants me to be waxed or trimmed, and yet he is like a hairy beast down there! I hate double standards. I like men that at least do some basic grooming (aka at least trim). And how do I make my fiance wax his back? Seriously, it is grossing me out!

My fiance wants me to be waxed or trimmed, and yet he is like a hairy beast down there! I hate double standards. I like men that at least do some basic grooming (aka at least trim). And how do I make my fiance wax his back? Seriously, it is grossing me out!

Tell him you're not going to have sex with him until he waxes that gorilla back.

I hear you, Janine22. I always have to be well groomed, but my fiance cringes when I suggest merely trimming the manbush. I hate the double standard.

I think shaven or trimmed is great, but then again I find excessive body hair a little icky. Although, I have known a few women that would find yogi bear attractive And I most certainly would not wish waxing on anyone! OW!

My boyfriend shaves it all off and I wouldn't have it any other way. I know it's natural but hair down there is just so nasty to me.

I prefer my men to be trimmed. Surprisngly, a couple of my bfs completely shaved it all off down there. I think they like it because it makes them look bigger or something... so I hear