About two months ago, I met a guy at a bar who happens to be in the same graduate program as me, but he's a few years older. He found my email address and we've been in constant contact for the past eight weeks but here's my problem — we hang out about once a week, we're usually drunk and end up sleeping together but we talk every single day and he calls me 'hun' and 'babe' as if I were his girlfriend. Whenever we hang out, I'm always the one making the effort to go to his apartment, or meet him at a bar, or go meet him and his friends wherever they are. I feel like I'm chasing around this guy who isn't making any effort other than calling me 'babe' every night via text-message.

I'm nervous to bring up how I feel because I don't want to make a big deal out of it if he just considers this a casual sex thing, but at the same time, I don't want to waste my time with someone who won't potentially become a boyfriend. What should I do?

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