Are you in a relationship where your friends don't like to go out with you because you're constantly fighting with your parnter? Or do you fight so infrequently that when you finally do, it's almost a deal breaker? When you spend a lot of time with someone, especially when you're lovers and friends, it's inevitable that you're going to fight from time to time. I happen to feel that fighting every once in a while is healthy and can even make your relationship stronger, so ladies, what I want to know is, approximately how many fights did you have with your significant other in 2007?
Fantasie
Miriam Ocariz
Kanebo
We have little arguments here and there (I wouldn't call them a fight at all), and one where we were yelling at each other (we NEVER yell at each other). Pretty good!
1My husband and I never fight. We do diasgree at times but it never escalates to a fight. If we are upset we walk away and cool off for a few minutes. Then we talk about it and it's done. I am so lucky. I have the best husband ever! He is my very best friend. Sometimes we bicker but it's never serious and we always go to bed with a hug & a kiss. I love being married to my best friend! We laugh and tease eachother every day. Our home is a very happy/positive and fun place! Full of love and support!
2I wanted to say well over 10...except we never had make-up sex
3My sweetie and I don't ever fight. If we don't agree on something, we just talk about it and are usually able to come to an agreement. As a rule, we never raise our voices at each other, and we are 100% honest with each other, regardless of whether it's a comfortable thing or not. I know it probably won't always be peachy-keen, but as long as we keep communicating with no problem, things will continue to be great!
4We can only recall one real fight between us so far. March 2005... after 3-for-1 drinks, an Interpol concert, and his roommate being a jerk while trying to screw with us. The rest of the time there is creative bickering
that it is usually the result of at least one of us
being hungry.
5We might have spat but we don't argue...we both like to talk things through...saves us the wasted time & energy of argueing...
6not going to lie, my hunnie and i have had a few bad ones, but its cuz we dont understand to communicate with one another, and we both get sooo worked up! but i can proudly say that as the years have gone one we have learn't about one another and everyday we are getting better and better!
7No blow outs, just little tension moments here and there that escalate into little things. pretty easily resolved within a reasonable amount of time and talking
8We had about 2-5 MAJOR ARGUMENTS where many tears were shed and I didn't know whether we would be able to make it through.
We've been having a few raised voice discussions this week but not against each other. We bounce back pretty quick and that's good!
I know he adores me and I adore him. We make it through anything~
9yeah we bicker, but not every day and always about stupid things....basically we get stressed about school,work, life,etc and we just take it out on each other....we always apologize and realize that we are just stressed and then we are fine. I think this is healthy and normal. We've only had one or two major arguments in our 2 years of being together so I think we are doing okay!
10haha i like that...creative bickering
11more like one and it WAS a deal breaker.
12really big "blowouts"? just ...two or three. but we bicker. we had alot of stress with us moving 500 miles from where we orginally were.
13Summerbaby, good for the two of you on learning to work together.
My guy and I have done a marriage preparation retreat, and DIY communication skills building with books from the library. We aren't perfect but have become pretty constructive in how we go about our thing.
14Little fights here and there...we've never fought over anything serious. Thank God.
150; we don't fight. There is nothing worse than having a relationship full of fights and bickering.
16We had a very stressful year on many fronts so we argued more than usual. But it seems to have made us stronger and closer as a couple, which I'm relieved about.
17Same here marci, it's been a stressful year. But if i've learned anything it's that we both have unconditional love for each other which makes me truly thankful.
18I am with Marci ..
19he doesn't fight with me but i yell at him sometimes, it's not fight though it's my misunderstandings
20We both had a really rough year, and once we recognised that the fights were more products of our situations, rather than problems we had with each other, it made things easier. We never used to fight so it's really upsetting when we do. Plus we're best friends and don't really have other people to turn to, so we both sulk alone until we make up.
21Well over ten -- but there was no makeup sex. Just a nasty breakup. It's for the better I do suppose.
22very BAD year
23We don't have fights, per say -- not the typical yelling angry ones. When I get mad at someone I care about, I get real quiet and just sort of stop talking. My boy knows this, and that's when he knows that whatever he's saying is very much the wrong thing to be saying. The only time a bout of bickering or arguing has occurred was over politics, he made some comments that hit me the wrong way and I stormed off until my brain cooled down.
Generally, though, neither of us gets angry enough for full-out fighting. We're both way too easy going. Hehe.
24abt 5, i forgot what they were about though.
25My fiance and I are both really stubborn so we butt heads eventually. We don't FIGHT a lot so maybe 3 big fights a year but we do have things we disagree on daily which are usually very funny and we joke about them. But I think that is kind of why we're together I could never be with someone who didn't have his own opinion and I would never give up my own mind for anyone
26We have had over 10 fights or (arguments). Overall I think it has only made us a stronger couple.
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