Let's be real — sometimes it takes a little extra TLC in order for us women to reach the big O. Other times it comes easily and then there are those times when no matter what you do, it's just a lost cause. So what are you supposed to do you ask? Well fake it, of course!
According to Tracey Cox, iVillage's sex expert, only 30 percent of women orgasm from penetration alone. That number, mixed with so many extenuating factors can affect your ability to relax in the bedroom, so ladies, what I want to know is, how many orgasms did you fake in 2007?
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i cant fake orgasms...that's just friggin weird.
1Haha maybe like 2 or 3, but I think it's hard to fake and my bf is reallllllly good at making me cum anyways!
2Where's the option for "none - I'm honest with my partner" it's not necessarily that it's easy.
3Ok, I don't fake them but it's not an easy feat.
4Never once in my life have I faked—and I never will.
5Zero. My boyfriend is the only guy I've ever been with who has been able to make me orgasm by both clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation, if that's not being too "descriptive". I swear he still thinks I'm lying when I tell him that, but hot damn, he's got the perfect penis for me... haha!
6None!
7I'm with DCStar. We're supposed to fake it? Forget that! What's so bad about saying, "Look, it's not gonna happen" or "Could you try doing this?" or "Hand me the Hitachi"? I've never faked and I never would.
8Yeah, I agree with DCStar too. There should be an option for "don't fake it because I'm honest."
9I've faked about three times in my life. The last time I had sex it was horrible, I wanted it to end, so I faked. Then I decided casual sex was not for me.
10None.
I'm a very satisfied customer
11i couldnt fake even if i wanted... the dude needs to know if he aint doin it right for the rest of the women out there lol and for yourself of course.
12i fake it all the time.
13None, but not because it's easy.
14i had my first one this year... but faked plenty of times.
15Lol, Bellasugar! Hand me the Hitachi! I love it! I'm so going to use that!
No faking here, my fiance is AMAZING.
16i used to fake a lot... when i was young. now, they are not doing there part or i just cant do get there. eather way i dont fake anymore.
17There is nothing wrong with faking it. And i will tell you why.
In my case, its hard to bring me to the Big O by "regular sex" i am more orally manipulated (and by hard, i mean its basically impossible), I enjoy regular sex immensly i get off but I rarely orgasm from it. No matter what position we are in. So am I to just say to my loving talented sexy hubby that he was great but no orgasm, for the rest of our marriage? I dont think he would enjoy himself as much, or his ego could take that. So i fake it, not in that stare at the ceiling looking at my watch and "ooo, ooo, right there" monotone voice fake, I give him an oscar worthy performance that i enjoy just as much as he does and we Both come away satisfied.
what is wrong with that?
18I don't believe in faking it. If it's not gonna happen, I just make sure he has a good time instead and hope I'm more relaxed next time. Plus, I always have the good ol' vibrator if we get desperate-- no need to fake!
19Same as you CaterpillarGirl! Sometimes it's just not going to happen but if I stopped him halfway how bad would that make him feel? So I give him a performance. He thinks I can climax multiple times and it does wonders for his ego but I can really only manage one orgasm every 24 hours or so..
I enjoy the closeness of him being there which is why I fake most of my orgasms.. =/
It's sad but some guys need their egos massaged during sex otherwise I'd never get any!! Like I said though I enjoy the closeness and the feeling but penetration isn't nearly enough to make me climax even 1/8th of the time.
Thankfully he'll use the vibrator first and that's usually just about enough!!
It's hard being a woman.
20i am so with Caterpillar...my man does the best oral, so...I would NEVER fake that, but I just dont think that it is possible for me to orgasm through regular sex. i would LOVE to not fake it, but I just dont think it's him...it's me. i still love the deed and enjoy the pleasure that I get, even if it isnt the big-O.
21haha..TMI yet?
I have never faked one. O.O
22i dont fake it! i dont always have one.. but that doesn't mean that its not good!!! cuz it is!!... but really i haven't faked it in a LONG time!!... i dont need to!!...
which is always a good thing!
23I've never faked. I love love love every aspect of sex, and the orgasm is just the cherry on the icing on the cake... And. I enjoy everything so much, it's easy for me to orgasm.
24i dont fake it, i just dont ever have them. im one of the unlucky ones whos to hard to please with sex.
25Well, I am one of that 30% that can by vaginal... in fact, I can't by oral..it sucks.
26But yeah I have one about 95% of the time we have sex. But, no I don't fake. I enjoy sex and when I don't have the big 'O' then I just do multiple times next time. My b/f is great about that. Nearly every time we have sex I have multiple orgasms.
Faking doesn't help anyone. If I don't have one, and he doesn't ask about it, I may not say anything unless it happenes again, but best believe if he ask, I'm telling the truth, because I'll be damned if I get left out on the cel-O-brations another time!!
27Faking doesn't help anyone. If I don't have one, and he doesn't ask about it, I may not say anything unless it happenes again, but best believe if he ask, I'm telling the truth, because I'll be damned if I get left out on the cel-O-brations another time!!
28I don't make a habit of it, but I have once in awhile. Sometimes I'm just tired and want to go to sleep and *that* isn't going to happen if he thinks I'm not satisfied.
29I don't put on the theatrics but I have moaned when I really didnt feel anything.... I just hated the silence...
30I have faked it with the bf when I knew it just wasn't going to happen, but I told him that I was not going to get there. He understood and finished.
It has nothing to do with him but, there are just those times when I know that the engine is not going to warm up!
31I don't fake it. My boyfriend is sometimes a hard worker, and he works until it pays off. I love that about him. It goes both ways, but he's less difficult than I am.
32I never fake. If I can't get there, I can't get there- and he tries extra hard next time.
That being said, just because I'm not going to reach climax doesn't mean I don't still enjoy sex. I still moan and writhe and all that good stuff. He knows I'm enjoying it, he knows I love sex with him no matter what- why fake it? It just seems unneccesary to me.
33And I think it's funny that the percentage of girls choosing "none- I'm one of the lucky ones who can orgasm like that!" is almost exactly 30%, just like the sexpert said.
34ive never faked it with my current boyfriend. other boyfriends yeah i had to bc they wanted me to come before they did and i think a snowball had a better chance in hell then me coming ... but my boyfriend now--he knows how to hit all the right buttons. and if it doesn't happen he isn't upset he just knows it'll happen next time.
35I don' fake it. If it doesn't happen for me one day I love it because then I know it will happen the next day in a biiiiig waay
and plus i don't get bored because I don't expect it to happen every time.
Sometimes it happens and i tell my bf it didn't (he knows it did tho) and that way I have even more fun the next day 
aah fun stuff 
36I've never climaxed by penetration ( only by clitoris stimulation) but i love every aspect of sex so much i moan all the time. I guess i've been close to climaxing by penetration many times but i just haven't gotten there yet !
37I have never had an orgasm yet, but that doesn't mean that I enjoy having sex with my BF tremendously. So what's there to fake? I love sex anyway, orgasm or no orgasm. If it's the cherry on top of the cake, I'll just have the chocolate and the icing I guess. But faking it wouldn't make my man happy at all.
38i've faked it cuz i didnt wana hurt the mans feelings, but thats just cuz it takes some extra time to heat up. But still either way it still feels good. I agree with "Fashion doll" I love it too all day everday Hurrayy for no orgasms ..(SOMETIMES) hahaha.
39Another thing..i cant ever get multiple ones, my friend is all over that one. She claimss that she gets them allll the time. Who knows..is there supposed to be a certain position or wut? Cuz this whole penetration doesnt cut it i need to be rubbed lol.
40i'm honest with my husband.
41it feels good either way.
I never ever fake. There's no point. If I'm really tired or distracted and can't there then I'll be honest.
42Dont have to fake. I get at least two per encounter.
43its really sad....my bf thinks if I don't make nosies or orgasm every time he's failed
44Uhhh...
I think I'm the only person that will admit,
I've only had one orgasm and I've faked it everytime since then.
Scared of an orgasm I think?
45I don't understand it.
"i am honest with my husband"
Well so am I. I honestly love him enough to make him feel good
AND dont tell me that none of you who say "I wont lie to my husband" dont tell tales sometimes....really. Glass houses.
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