If you're in a relationship, chances are you have a pretty steady sex life, but if you're single and don't believe in casual sex, I bet you wish you were getting a little more action! I'm pretty sure we've all experienced a dry spell here and there, so ladies, do tell, what's the longest you've gone without sex?










Dorotennis
Max Mara
Minnetonka
5 years and counting
1Probably like 6 months tops.
2I do believe in casual sex so it's not because of that. My boyfriend got deplyed to Iraq and I had to wait it out for him, longest four months of my life!
3i've been in back to back relationships pretty much since high school. I'd say the summer after 11th grade and I'm almost 24 now.
43 years of being selective and worth the wait
5almost 4 yrs...then i met my current bf...it was like being "brand new"...loved it!
6just over a year
71 month.
8Two years.
9I could go forever without having sex. I must be the only one. I'm in a great relationship, but it doesn't matter that much to me. I don't believe in casual sex and havn't had many partners, which I'm proud of.
10Simple, just dont ever not be in a relationship and no dry spell.
11A year and a half and going. I tried casual sex after my last relationship, but I was left unsatisfied which in turn made me feel KIND OF bad, so I just decided to wait it out for the right person.
1227 years. I waited till I got married.
13a year and a half (18-20 yrs old). and then i went on a 'casual sex' binge where i racked up the numbers when i was 21/22. not proud of it but that period of my life is over!
149 months
1517 years and counting = ) i havent had sex yet.
16A year and a half. And I'm not single.
176 months...and I was married. Needless to say, that marriage didn't work out! Since 2005, two weeks is about the limit. Much better the second time around!
181 year prob the longest. Don't really believe in casual sex. However i do get cranky when im not having sex lol
1922 months and counting. These days I've decided to stay celibate. Never had casual sex though.
20I have no idea. Maybe a year? I guess I don't really pay attention to these things.
21um before i was in relationship i went without sex for about a year and now that I am in relationship we went once without sex for a month!!! I was very frustrated!
22Silent Vamp, I hear that! My ex and I were great friends and roommates but six months was not uncommon.
I'm much happier now.
And as for the question, two and a half years and it didn't really concern me to be honest.
23two and a half years !
241 year..1 year of complete and total hell.
251yr and 1 mo between my 1st & 2nd partners. Then 5 months between him and my boyfriend now...which has been a happy, fulfilled year, 8 months and counting
2618 months when I was with a christian who didn't believe in sex before marriage.
Then he spontaneously changed his mind one day and it was awful and I wish he hadn't. Then we maybe had sex about once every 3 months? Very depressing. I finally put a stop to it after two and a half years, met somebody new and was at it like rabbits.
=P
Now I'm with my current boyfriend the longest we go is a week when we're both stressed and hassled with work.
27I think the longest was six months...and I was in a relationship at that time!!! I really wanted to be out of it, but didn't know how to end it (we had been dating for 4 years). I totally lied and said I was going to "reclaim my virginity" until we got married...yikes lightening will strike me for that one. Finally I got the courage to end it. Since then the longest was maybe a month or two.
28usually about a year or so. i don't do the casual sex thing. i don't really know anyone that i could do that with, and how does one go by recruitting such a person??
"Hi. You're hot, and i want you to fill out this application: your name, age, sexual orientation, the last 4 sexual partners you've had -for reference- and your last STD test results. And tell which dates you are available to work."
i'll sound like a lunatic.
the last time i had sex was about a year and a half ago. it wasn't great. and before that, it was about a year.
ok. i just did a poll and realized i haven't been on a date this year, and i haven't had sex either???
ok. that's it. i need a love life ASAP!
29Here's the deal..
You trawl bars/get hooked with guys by friends/go on the net and find partners and then you have sex with them, casually.
I don't know really. I have a high moral standard and wait at least 4 days before putting out.. rofl.
30Since April of 2006 and technically it was sex but I feel I have been without since before that poor excuse for a sex partner. Living in New York city I could get hooked up but it is not worth for me.. kudos for those who can, I guess....
31after my kids were born,it limited us ,but after that we went at it like crazy..so about 6 weeks.
32well actually 17 years,then I met my man and you know the story
33well i dunno, what time is it.....
34The longest? Was over a year and half.
35:rofl:lickety split
36the longest stint for me was 7 months.. but my husband and I have been married for 5 years and he's a Marine so he's gone alot so i'd say we have been sexless for almost 3 out of those 5 years. it sucks.. lol
372 weeks max.
3810 months, and 5 months of that were in a relationship. Let's just say that relationship didn't last.
I was such a b*tch for those 10 months and when I finally did have sex, I was soooo happy. I vowed never to go that long again. After that I think the longest was about 4 weeks. I was definitely enjoying my sex until I met my husband. Now we don't go more than a week.
39I haven't gone longer than 2 weeks since I was 14, and I've never had sex with someone I wasn't in a relationship with.
40It's been 4 months.
41The longest I've gone w/out sex was 1 month. I believe I suffer from the "man mentality" because I'm a fan of casual sex (unless I'm in a relationship).
42little over a year. but now, since i'm married, maybe 2 weeks
43five or six months over the past 20 years - and that was just once in my life. wow, i feel old.
442 and a half yrs and counting...
45It's been a rough stretch of time, but the longer I go without the more I think it's worth waiting for someone special. I've also made good friends with my vibrator during this time
LMFAO VAL!!!
The longest weve ever gone since being married that didnt involve bc we medically couldnt is
maybe 4 days.
46Other then the periods after kids the longest was 7 months when then bf now hubby was deplyed to kuwait for the iraqi war. Now Im looking at 6weeks to 6 more months bc hes going to training
2yrs. and counting. I could go the rest of my life without it. I'm just not interested in it. Main reason why I'm not in a relationship - he wants it but I really don't.
47Funny question because I just broke up with my boyfriend recently and he wanted to wait until marriage. I am 27 years old and divorced... I decided I would try and stay with him even though I don't have the same beliefs about waiting for sex. It has been about 1 1/2 years and I couldn't take it anymore. So 1 1/2 years for me... but unwillingly (in a way).
48I'm sooo happy I came accross this site. I thought I was the only one that wasn't having sex. It has been 2 years and a few weeks for me. 1 year and 1 month of that I was with someone and we didn't do it at all, then I finally had the courage to leave him and developed a crush on this one guy I told him finally that I was really into him 11 months after I developed that crush on him but I told him in a really horney way and then I found out he had a girlfriend so I felt like a complete jack ass and now wishing I hadn't done that (u know what though, he should feel pretty damn flattered I even sent him that facebook message!) So in total 2 years and a few weeks and then some.
49Over 2 years. It was after a messy divorce and I had alot of issues I was dealing with I was not in a very good place mentally to be dating. It took me a long time to recover. After my divorce I thought I'd never want to date again. Eventually I slowly got back into the scene and started dating again. but it was a very rough 2 years.
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