Attending holidays with your significant other is a big step and one not to be taken lightly. Since many companies don't offer much vacation for the Thanksgiving weekend, it's sometimes difficult for people to get home to see their own families. If you fall into that category and are attending Thanksgiving dinner for the first time with your significant other, here are some tips to abide by. Click here to read more
- Dress to impress without going overboard. Make sure to ask your boyfriend how fancy or casual his Thanksgiving tends to be and dress accordingly. Don't wear anything too low cut, too short, or too revealing. Although you want to be fashionable, you're still trying to make a great first impression.
- Don't come empty handed. If you and your boyfriend weren't in charge of cooking anything, bring flowers, a bottle of wine, a Christmas ornament, or even an additional dessert.
- Since many people avoid sitting couples next to each other, be prepared to be sat at the other end of the table.
- Thanksgiving can be incredibly stressful holiday, so offer to help where ever you can: serving, clearing, doing the dishes, pouring wine, etc.
- Whatever you do, don't drink too much
- If you're shy by nature or tend to clam up in front of strangers, prepare a little speech beforehand. His family is going to want to get to know you so be prepared to talk about yourself, almost like you're on a job interview. And don't forget to smile!
I hope these tips are helpful come Turkey day, and don't forget to write a prompt thank-you note.









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7 For All Mankind
Jasmine Di Milo
I am in a tricky spot this year because I practically lived with my boyfriend at his parent's house for a semester, but I have never gone there for holidays or birthdays.
I am going this year for Thanksgiving. I guess I will just be myself?!
1this is always tricky! haha
2im always sooo nervous when it comes to these kinda things
that i just get tooo quite and hardly talk at all!
which i know i shouldn't do.. but ahh haha.. i dont wanna open my mouth and something come out that shouldn't you know?! but i think as time goes on i have gotten a little bit better at this! ... i hope..
Neither of our parents really did a traditional thanksgiving this year so we were lucky.
3But for Christmas we are each attending each other's family dinners!!! This will be the first REAL BIG dinner with the families but I'm excited
I'm also like friends with his sister and brother and I go to his mom's without him soooo I know I won't embarrass myself or be nervous at the dinner haha.
4Whoo thanks for the advice , I have met most of my boyfriend's family but I haven't been around them all at once. I am excited but soooo nervous, I hope I can come out of my shell, I tend to clam up.
5I met my boyfriend's (now husband) family for the first time one Christmas. Good thing they established themselves as crazy right off the bat, and I never really cared about how they perceived me.
6Ugh, I'm totally going to my boyfriend's family Thanksgiving this year. We've been dating for 2 years, but I've never met this side of the fam. Stressful!
7We've stayed the weekend with his mom a dozen times before, but I've never spent Thanksgiving with her. I wasn't nervous until I read this!
8Initially, my boyfriend and his family were supposed to come celebrate Thanksgiving with my family, but plans changed and now they're just coming up for Black Friday. Although I've never celebrated Thanksgiving with them, I have had the pleasure to spend time with them around Christmas. My biggest advice is to be yourself...don't try too hard to impress them because then they'll never get to know the girl he fell in love with. Oh, and if possible, try to remember names! Hopefully your significant other doesn't have a gazillion aunties and uncles like my boyfriend does.
9My boyfriend and I live together and are having Thanksgiving at our house. 17 of his relatives are coming, Im cooking everything. Should be interesting.
I get along well with his mom and all his siblings so that makes it easier.
10omg Alisha, GOOD LUCK!!!! I'm sure his mom and sibs will be able to help you out. I'm sending positive energy vibes your way!
11Im a little sad, first year that Im spending thanksgiving at my bfs family. Its nice but I guess because its the first one Ive missed at "home".. Last year, he went with me so its def his turn. lol.
12Haha I was just thinking about all the people who would be meeting their significant other's family for the first time. I'm single at the moment :/ but I know how nerve-wracking meeting everyone can be. Good luck!
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