In France we do not call them booty calls but "Confort dialing", which I find nicer. Back on topic, I never would expect anything serious from a relationship based on lust and convenience. If it does happen, good for the people involved, but looking for commitment in general is a sure-fire way of scaring the other party, whatever the gender. I'm sure some Popsugarettes have been horrified by confort dialers offering more than they were bargaining for.

I say you should never expect any kind of commitment from someone you are just seeing "sexually."

But, I say after a few weeks, if it hasn't developed into something more and you want it to be something more, then it's time to pack it in and call it "a day."

I had a a series of 'booty calls' for months and nothing ever developed on my end, I never wanted anything more from them (I was too busy for anything else). Then I met my now husband, we started out as just 'booty calls' and after 6 months and him going to Iraq, it developed into what it is now.

the only booty call i ever had was with an ex boyfriend and we had already went down the 'lets try more' road and it didn't work but the sex was pretty good so we kept it there until one of us starting dating someone else.

I was never the booty call type. I WANTED to be, but for some reason couldn't do it.

I'm with lilwildone it was an ex thing. Only when he started dating someone else we didn't stop...guys go figure...

If both people are okay with it an TRULY realize it is what it is. Then it can go on forever I guess

I'm with lilwildone, too. But everything turned awkward when my ex revealed that he was in love with me...

For me, not in this century. I want and respect what's real.

I would never,ever, lower myself to be anyone's booty call......period.

I don't think I have what it takes to have a fwb relationship

Quit while you're ahead! I am not the booty call type, but I am watching a friend engage in repeated booty calls with a girl, and now they're starting to become jealous of each other's sexual partners. They're having a lot of fun with each other, but I predict it will end not so cleanly.

Alot of times the girl wants more and ends up hurt. FWB is fun for a little while but then always goes sour! Has anyone had success in the FWB category? I cant think of anyone who has!

I would never insult myself by lowering myself to the title of booty call. That's just gross. I find it to be a good thing when you can remember the first and last names of the guys you have slept with, and not to have to start counting toes.

This book I love called "don't sleep with your drummer" says the statue of limitations on any casual sex relationship is three months, and then someone falls in love and someone doesn't.

This is just one of the reasons why women are stereotyped in so many ways. Woman and men glorify this action as if it is the norm. This is not something that you would encourage your child to do as an adult. When you do this sort of action, then first of all you are mentally playing with fire. And physically you are playing with an even larger fire. You have no idea how many other people your partner has on the side besides you. They could kill you with a disease. But what they hey right….it was fun. Fun but deadly, fun but immoral, fun but demeaning for your gender, fun but just flat out absentminded.

I agree with a lot of you who disagree for many reasons on this topic. If you have a commitment issue then you need to address that area within your life. There are millions of books out there, start there. But to place your life and morals out on the line…..I don’t think so. No sex is to die for.......seriously.

Depends on the guy.

a month is the cut off for me, or even sooner.