It's not something I am at all comfortable with.

I can't say as it would bother me if I found out someone had sex while in my house, but I don't want to hear the actual act. No matter where I am.

To clarify, since I can't edit, having sex while I am a houseguest is something I'm not at all comfortable with. Not people in general having sex while at another's house.

I don't think it's a big deal. I mean, I'd be uncomfortable with the noisiness but not the fact that they were having sex.

I think it's polite to wait until you get home. I have a girlfriend that always wants to meet someone and hook up while she's in town. That is NOT COOL to happen in my house. I suppose it would depend on the people involved, but I won't have my home used for one night stands.

Not cool at all.

Its a bit rude considering that someone has to clean the room up after you've "used" it. I say go to a hotel if you want to.

Someone picking up a random guy at a bar and bringing to my house wouldn't fly. You don't do that to a friend, or a friend's family, that's flat-out rude.

I hadn't thought about the clean-up factor. Ewww.

It depends on the couple, for me. I don't have a problem with "serious" couples hooking up at my house, but one-night-stands are a definite no. It also depends on how long they're staying; if it's just one night, they should wait!

Yeah, I agree with bbkf, I suppose. If it was a good friend and her husband or serious boyfriend, that's fine. A friend and some dude she picked up at a bar. No way.

I'd even be ok with it if they're only there one night if, say, they're trying to conceive and had an unexpected hormone surge. 8lol*

haha, Greggie.

I think it depends on how long they are staying. if it's just one night, they can wait. if they are spending a week or two, I don't blame them!

I had a friend who did this once. It was on our couch. We were disgusted. Ew.

I would do it = but be super quiet. You gotta do what you gotta do

ha ha. i think it's funny!

I would not like it at all, save it till you leave!!

Oh please! Am I not allowed to use the potty at your house either? The thought of that might gross you out too. If you're going to have sex as a house guest, be considerate - that means reasonably quiet and don't leave a mess (just like any other activities as a house guest). I agree to no one-night stands as guest though, but thats mainly because I would never dream of having a stranger over to my house or to someone else's.

i would not hook up at my friends houses, i hope they wouldn't do it for me. no one has stayed in my home yet for more than a few days, so i think it can wait until they get home.

My hubby and I have sex as house guests. There's something about being away from home that makes it more exciting. We're considerate in that we make sure we're super clean & quiet about it.
And if I were the hostess, I wouldn't mind as long as they too keep it quiet & clean.

hahah i just did that this weekend.
and have before...
and that's on the pull out couch in the living room...
but we're very quiet... we keep our mouths shut and stay under the covers just in case.
I dont see a problem with it, if i had friends over and heard them, i wouldnt be happy, but if they are quiet, i couldnt care less. unless its like my sister... then ewww no. lol

I'm with DesignRchic and bbkf! I hated hearing my neighbors have sex (when I lived in an apartment)! Haha. Keep it down but enjoy! Har har har.

I personally wouldn't feel comfortable having sex in someone else's house. I think it does depend on the situation though- if it's a person someone meets that night and brings back, that is definitely not something I'd be happy about a guest doing. If it was someone who was with their partner, it is slightly less awkward as long as they're discreet. But only if they have a bedroom. If they were shagging on my sofa I would not be a happy bunny.

I had my friend & her boyfriend stay at my place one weekend. I gave them MY bed. They had sex in it!! That was an immediate sheet wash the next day. I was not happy.

Well in college, I lived on campus and some of my friends lived off senior year... More than once I gave them my bed and stayed at my boyfriend's, knowing what would happen. That didn't bother me at all, I just did the sheets the next day.

And I must say, I'm guilty of this! My boyfriend and I recently visited one of his fraternity brothers for a weekend. He gave us his bed (at his parent's house), and told us right away we could do anything. Needless to say, we did, we just never told him about it...

If you can do it without the host knowing, then I don't see why not.

But making a lot of noise as a houseguest in ANY capacity is rude, as is not cleaning up after yourself.

That said, I agree that bringing a one-night stand home to someone else's place is disrespectful.

One night stands = NO WAY
serious relationships = keep it quiet and clean up after yourself (I do not want to find any condoms, etc.)

If my husband I were the houseguests then I would have to say it depends on how long we are there....1-2 nights, we can wait...other than that we would keep it very quiet...lol...

As long as your quiet, no problem. However, I wouldn't let friends sleep over, they can go to the hotel up the road. I had a bad experience as a teenager. I left town with my parents, and my older brother stayed home. I found out all kinds of disgusting things involving my bed, which was replaced ASAP. The next time we left town, I had a master lock put onto the outside of my bedroom door. So, it's ok for me to do, but not others in my house. I'm such a hypocrite. Atleast I admit it.

I don't think it is a problem as long as they are quite and do not disturb anytone or make a mess. It also depends on who you are staying with. If you are close then i don't thnk there would be an issue but if you disrespect their beliefs or sneak around. just always wash the bedding after they leave just in case.

I agree that one-night stands are completely out of the question. Which is one reason, we can never have roommates again. I couldn't have a female roommate, and there is no way I'd allow a male roommate to bring some slut into my pad. Basically, my rule would be that if they havn't been dating for a couple months to qualify as a relationship, no females. So glad I didn't have to go through that disgusting college experinece. of having your roommate having sex in your dorm room, I'd kicked some ass.

I don't really see a problem with a serious couple hooking up, as long as they clean up after themselves and aren't noisy.

One night stands? No; go somewhere else.
But other than that, try to keep as quiet as possible and clean up any messes afterward.

Well this may sound one sided but personally I don't want anyone to have sex in my house when they are a guest, but if they do and I don't hear it..well I guess it does not matter! Now when I'm a guest in someone elses house I find it kinda a turn on to have sex and try and be quiet so no one can hear it!

depending on how long im going to be staying at a friends or family's house.. i mean if its like two weeks i may just give in and be super sneaky about it.. but really i dont really feel comfortable with it!.. lol what if they like knocked on the door or something! haha

Personally I dont have a problem with it, as long as its not in my bed! That's gross, keep it quiet and clean and its whatever.

As long as you're quiet and discreet, there is no reason not to get busy. It is your vacation and everyone knows that vacation sex is especially good so take advantage of being away from everything at home and enjoy yourselves

I don't think I have ever done that at a friends house b/c I typically stay at hotels.

I have a funny story though about it....my husband's brother came in from out of town with his girlfriend(now wife)who also lived in a different state. They hooked up. That wasn't the problem b/c I didn't hear anything as the room was on the other side of the house. However, after they went back home and I was changing the sheets I found his boxer shorts underneath the fitted sheet. I told my husband about it and he gave him a really hard time about it. We still laugh about it every once in a while.

If you can't be quiet about it, don't do it. If it's for one or two nights, refrain if possible. If it's longer, be decorous about it!

lizzie - you mean to say you wouldn't have washed your sheets after if they hadn't? I don't think it's unreasonable to think that if you invite a couple to stay over, that they might have sex.. in fact you should expect it. People should be civilised enough to use discretion and politeness, in the act itself, and actions after, like stripping the bed the next day. As for a one-night stand, that's a different story I think.

It's called respect.

Having done this myself before, I'd have to say that friends are one thing and family are another.

My (now ex-) boyfriend and I had sex in his childhood room when his parents flew us out to meet them. Disrespectful? maybe, but it was his idea.

I made him get on the floor w/ me so the bed wouldn't squeak, but then we ended up knocking over his CD tower. LOUD crash, but no one was stirred fortunately.

Yes you should be respectful about it, but WHERE you are in proximity to the host and WHO the host is also play factors. Also, the length of your stay.

Hafta admit though that it was pretty surreal to have sex w/ him under his Lego collection, He-Man collectibles, and 8th birthday party photos..

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I think it depends on how well you know the person who's house you're staying at, and whether or not it will make them uncomfortable in their own home.

No one night stands, while in a committed relationship it's alright. That being said, I've never had jurisdiction over a space, really. My boyfriend and I have both done it in our respective homes, but while we did it at my place when the relatives were gone, we did it at his place when the relations were asleep upstairs. So, yeah, guilty all around without any guilt on our consciences. Yay!

Also, roomates? If you're going to bring guys back, sexiling is appropriate--that is, putting up the sock. My roommate kept forgetting. My boyfriend and I had sex on her bed.

No one will know what you've done if you're not messy and not noisy. So as long as no one finds out, then why not?

no i couldnt do it.imagine the embarrasment at the breakfast table the following morning if you had been heard! ahhhhhhhhh!

no i couldnt do it.imagine the embarrasment at the breakfast table the following morning if you had been heard! ahhhhhhhhh!

I think its exciting and fun as long as you keep it quiet!

I suppose it depends on the situation, but if you definetely cannot wait you better be quiet as a mouse. Whoever's house you are staying at definetely does not want to know/hear about everything you should be doing in the privacy of your own home. YIKES