I was once with a guy who was very verbal during sex. He wasn't gross or loud, but he definitely liked to talk while we were making love. It was actually a real turn on. He'd talk about what he was going to do to me, and he'd ask me to do things — in a sweet way of course, never dirty. He even tried to get me to talk, but I'm not much for chatting in between the sheets.
There are definitely times when talking during sex may be necessary, especially if you're with a new partner. You may need to explain what you like and what you want the other person to do (or not do). However, talking can sometimes be a distraction, and having sex with a real chatterbox may end up ruining the moment.
So what do you think about talking and sex? Do you talk, or are you quietly enjoying all the sensations? Do you like it when the person you're with talks, or do you think the experience is better when there are no words involved?
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Definitely a talker, but not a dirty talker. We joke around through everything we do, including sex. It's just who we are.
1Talk, laugh, say no, tease, its all good. I wouldnt talk about politics or the weather but definitely what he wants to hear.
2I love the dirty talking from time to time.....not everytime but every once in a while AND my husband says it in SPANISH!
How sexy is that!
3i sound like a porn star every time i have sex. it's almost embarrassing, but i've come to realise that's who i am in bed. the good news is that The Husband is OK with it.
he never talks dirty, but i wish he would!
4I talk too much sometimes, lol. My hubby has to tell me to be quiet sometimes. lol I'm not a dirty talker though! I am awful at that!
5There are times when I am very verbal and talk my fair amount, and then there are times when I want to just have sex and get it over with or have it be "making love" sex.
I like talking about what I am going to do or what is going to be done to me, it's very sexy.
6No
7My SO is definitely a talker - talk, talk, talk, talk - says all kinds of wild sh*t. I've gotten used to it, tho. Even do a little because I know he enjoys a bit of me answering his questions, telling him when to do stuff, ask for something, or just tell him to finish.
8I had an ex who would talk and it would make me lose my concentration! Terribly non-erotic..
9Not big on the talking when having sex.
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No.
11Mmmm I am a talker too, especially when i am really enjoying myself!
12I lvoe it, and I'm PRETTY sure the boyfriend does too
I'm with you lolabella.
13And so is my man, so it's all good.
dirty talk.. yuppers haha.. i talk lol.. but not ALL the time!.. sometimes i cant get the words out! lol
14I sounds like a porn star too...I don't think the neighbors like it though. So we have to do all the dirty talking with during the day sex
15omg i talk too much...but i've come to realize that most guys LOVE it.
16Not a big talker...don't mind if he is tho. I should take a class or read a book to learn, cause I think I might like to sound like a porn star...
17i am not a big talker but guys seem to like that i just feel silly though. working on it
18I'm not a big talker, I say what needs to be said and nothing more. I find it really creepy being with someone who won't shut up. I don't want to have to focus on what someone is saying to me the entire time I'd rather focus on other things.
19My boyfriend and i are both talkers. I can't imagine not talking at least a little during sex. I like to tell him what I want to him to do to me, and I like to hear him say that he likes what I am doing, or what would make him feel even better.
20Words are most def exchanged
21Nope.. not much of a talker in between the sheets..
22Dirty talk is HOT and can be really fun. I don't think I talked alot but I'm not silent. I won't get loud though, it's just not who I am.
23We talk a little bit, but I'm generally fairly quiet.
24I talk too much!
25Actually, I've had no complaints about the talking, but I always manage to crack myself up some way or another.
i definitely like talking, answering questions, and a little dirty. But i like it when we both talk. Once I slept with this guy and he didn't say a word so I didn't either....AWKward!!!
26Eh .. I will talk during sex, but usually I just like to moan and grab around, cuz I freakin' canNOT keep my eyes open! lol
My friend that I'm hooking up with likes to talk and crack jokes when he's riding me but I'm not always into it..
27My lover and I communicate from start to finish. He knows what I like, asks if it feels good, tells me what he wants to do... and how good it feels. He tells me I'm sexy and how much he loves me. We've never made love without talking our way through it. It just adds to the experience... and when things heat up - I talk dirty!
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