Dear Sugar--

I know this sounds crazy but I am a 32 year old married male who fell head over heels for a woman at my office. She's sweet, beautiful, caring, and fun to talk to. The thing is she left to another state recently and I am crushed. I can't seem to forget about her. I am married so why do I feel like this about a woman I only barely knew?

--Feeling Pathetic Peter

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Dear Feeling Pathetic Peter--

That's a tough question that really only you can answer although I can ask you some questions that may help you to make some sense of your feelings. Are you happy in your present marriage? Is there something missing such as sex [1], interesting conversation, or encouraging support? Are you still in love with your wife? Does this other woman have something you wish your wife had? Are you bored with your marriage and looking for some excitement? Have you tried to spice up your sex life? Have you Source [2]