Everyone loves the women of Sex and the City, but what makes their characters so relatable and realistic is their trials and tribulations with each other and their lovers. I think it's safe to say that every woman out there has had similar experiences - whether it's having someone to call Mr. Big or disagreeing with your best friend's promiscuous behavior - it's just part of being a woman!
At the end of the series, each character ended up with the man she loved, so if you could pick between Big, Harry, Steve or Smith to be your main squeeze, which character would you want as your partner?










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Um, Aidan.
1Ditto, citizenkane!
2BIG!
3Smith Jerrod
4I'm glad someone else caught Mr. Big's real name!
I choose Smith!
5Where's Aidan? I choose Aidan!!!
6i would choose aidan too!! he is hot.. but i will have to go with smith.. Mmmmm hehe
7Steve. I love nice guys.
8steve or harry.... nice guys. i have had a crush on steves character for ever.
9After the first date scene where he and Carrie couldn't contain themselves, my heart belonged to Big. Plus, he calls her "kid" which is oh so cute.
10I would have taken Aidan, but since he's not on the list, I'm taking Steve!
11Yes Smith is SUPER HOT and i wouldn't mind a roll in the hay with him, but he seemed way too idealized as the "sensitive, hot guy." It just didn't seem too real and frankly, i don't think i could take having such a hottie for my main man...too much worrying about other women trying to snag him!
But i voted for Steve b/c he had such a wonderfully developed character and he was really a great guy overall for all his faults. i simply LOVE Steve.
12smith! actually steve too or big
i hope she calls him BIG in the movie! john is just too odd for me!
13i would have gone with Aidan but given the choices, i'd choose Big on looks alone..he's the sexiest. Smith is H-O-T but only if i wanted go out with someone and have a good time. Harry is funny and Steve's a doll.
i LOVE that Charlotte is preggers in the new movie! she deserves that!
14Harry!
15I voted for Smith Jerrod but helllooo my choice would be Aidan if he was on there!!!
16Steeeve! Smith is hot but Steve is a total dork and sweetheart. That's enough to win me over.
17ladies I don't think the question was who do we want to sleep with it's who do we want to be our man.... I say AIDAN, but since he's not here, totally Harry, he's just so sweet, smart, funny and adorable.
18Personally I like them all. But...I think I'd have to say Steve he's just such a sweetheart!
19steve brady- he was such a sweetheart. i was just watching the show the other day thinking, i would love a man just like steve.
20Definitely Big.....Steve's a little too wimpy, Harry's a little too odd and I need hair, too. Smith's young enough to be my son so ew! And I'm sorry but while he was easy on the eyes, Aidan was just not worldly enough. He was a good ole boy with great values but I'll take BIG!! Yes he can be a jerk but seriously what man can't? Love the way he looks! His chemistry with Carrie is fantastic!!!!! He's FOREVER BIG!!!!!! Even though I know he's really John.
21Steve... Smith may be dreamy but he's not my style. Big might be charming, but it would never work. And the other guy is too quirky.
22Steve is funny and sweet.
Wish Aidan was an option. For me, Steve. I almost went with Smith Jerrod, but Steve is so nice and funny and a family guy, really supportive. Just all around sweet. Though SJ was really supportive, I'd always feel his hotness was out of my league
23I loved all of these men for different reasons, but I chose Big only because he evolved and became a better man. Harry would be my second choice, A. IRONIC, and B. he's just so eager to please and hilarious.
24Where's AIDAN??!
25hell yes aidan. but steve! my love! or harry!!
26Big, of course.
27Big!!! He actually reminds me of my boyfriend now
28Smith
29You didn't say married, so of course...BIG.
30im SHOCKED smith jarrod doesnt have like 90% of the votes. he was just pure sweetness and oh so dreamy. big's too old for me, he could probably be my grandpa!! or else he'd be my second pick hes totally my type =]
31I guess the guy with the long, blonde hair. None of them really tickle my fancy though...
32I'm all about blondes, but Big all the way...
33Smith for play and actually Harry for keeps.
34Aidan. He was so good to Carrie. I know she had to end up with Big to make the story just work, but I always thought he treated her like crap.
Out of the list, I pick Harry. He was so sweet and kind, and geniunely in love with Charlotte.
35HELLO..where's AIDAN??? He's the ideal wonderful man. I guess if I can't pick him, I'd go with Harry because he was the closest to Aidan's personality, that sweetheart guy type that will do anything for you.
36*~*I would really want Aidan!!!!! I liked him & Carrie together too!!!*~*
37I agree, where's Aidan?
38I like Steve
39Aidan should be on here!! but i chose Steve... he is a sweetie!!
40I am a sucker for a sweet face so out of the choices it would be smith but I have to agree with the others...where is Aiden? He was hot and nice!!!!!
41Where's Aidan? I want him!! The perfect man!
42Smith is hot, but I like Harry because he is sweet and funny.
43smith, hot and cute!
44Smith is really hot and sweet.
45But I absolutely love Steve, he's completely adorable.
Steve Brady is adorable and a great father on SATC. He's on the short side but he has a great smile and a hot bod. Does anyone else remember the episode when he and Miranda go on their Honeymoon and he's naked in bed. He's hot! Smith is too immature and model-esque for me. Steve is a real man and a hunk who isn't afraid of a strong woman in his life!
46Aiden's was the BEST... but, not around so then I have to choose Smith!!!!!
47so sorry Aiden was the Best! I didn't proof....
48Smith. His age isn't an issue with me because I'm 23. He was so sweet to Samantha, especially when he shaved his and her heads when she was on chemo! And he's hot.
I also like Steve, though.
49the blong guy!!!!!!!!! hot hot hot. hes probly a real playa though
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