Nope

Totally! Always, always safe. Sometimes a single gals gotta have sex, so why not?

Its not that I dont believe in it... I mean I have lots of friends who do it... I just can't... I get too emotionally attached too quickly and it just ends up real bad... so no, not for me!

aslong as it's safe, so what?
I've never been able to have casual sex tho, I just can't do it.
always been w/ some1 im in a relationship w/.

I think it's fine as long as your safe and wanting it!

I'm fine with it as long as your safe. I don't have time, or even want, a relationship so it's what works best for me.

I said no...I am not going to go further than that. but i need to say...a person who does not have casual sex can also have a healthy sexual appetite...they just don't satiate their appetite with strangers.

I used to be Ok with it when I was younger...but I would always get attached way too fast.

Never 100% safe anymore.

I don't have any philosophical objections to it, as long as the participants are consenting adults and they're safe about it, but it's not for me.

I wish I felt more comfortable with it, because I have a high sex drive!!! But I'm afraid of being called easy and of being taken advantage of. I try and hold off from having sex early in the relationship pretty much for those reasons.

No but I can't vote in the poll because your reasoning behind your "no" isn't the same as mine. I don't think it's trashy. I just don't think it's a good idea for me.

i sad no but not for the reasons listed. no judgement. it just doesnt appeal to me. and im sorry but i have an insatiable appetite for sex (and proud of it) but i would never want "casual sex" so i dont know about that reasoning. most of my friends prefer it, but for me him knowing my body and me being the the one and only is not optional. and really.. nothing good ever comes from getting around.

You just have to be very careful to not get attached!! I can say that in the past I was soo very male about the whole thing...no attachments suited me... I think everyone, both male & female, gets to the point that they want attachments and that is when the casual sex phase ends...

i think sex should only be between people who love each other, but thats just me, everyones different obviously.

Absolutley NOT! Sex should only be with someone you love.

I'm with k8 rckstr & xo_verity!

NO!

Nope. I need to have a deep, emotional connection with someone to really enjoy it. I have no problem with others doing it though; just not for me.

Si.

I'm with cravinsugar, and as not to instill my values on everyone else, I won't say much more. I have a healthy sexual appetite, I just have lots of sex with one person, whom I love deeply. All of my friends know that I strongly oppose this, and the people who participate in it.

Strong advocate against the act of whorism...

My bff's sister went away to the casual sex capital, college, and returned with HPV, Herpes, and Chlmydia after one year. Oh-yea, she doesn't tell the guys she has casual sex with, and condoms don't completely protect against any of these, specifically not herpes.

Personally, I've never been comfortable with casual sex, but for others? Whatever goes on between consenting adults is their business and not for me to judge.

not for me. my body is too precious to me to just be giving it to someone i dont even know.

i've never had casual sex, but i'm not against it. i think if two adults understand what's happening and their safe, it shouldn't be a problem.

I voted no because I personally don't believe that I should be doing that. I found someone I deeply love to do that with and I think it's something to be shared and cherished within a relationship. I'm of course, not against other people doing it, as long as it's consensual and safe sex.

I have a hard time enjoying ANYTHING, including casual conversation or funny jokes, if I'm around people I don't know very well. If I ever tried to have sex with somebody I didn't know very well, I would probably be miserable, just because I am such a shy and uptight person.

I try not to judge others who are fans of casual sex, but I have to confess that I also kind of see it as a waste of time and energy. And no form of sex is 100% safe. It's one of those things that I wish wouldn't happen, but that doesn't necessarily make someone a bad person. Like speeding on the highway or using all those crazy abbreviations while instant messaging.

Nope.

I think its wrong that we've been conditioned by society to think that sex is still a taboo thing. Yes, it's always better feeling when you're in a loving relationship. But, the fact of the matter is that casual sex should not be frowned upon. It's not for everyone, and yes you have to be very mindful of your emotions, but it's not a bad thing.

I used to think it was ok and I regret the number of partners I have had.
My body is my temple, sacred and special. Why did I let so many UNspecial men use it for pleasure only? I am with the man I want to marry now and sometimes I feel bad that what he alone gets, so many other men have had.

I would never have casual sex, but if that's what you want to do and you're okay with it, go for it.

absolutely not. its extremely dangerous this day and age, because nothing is 100% and sexual history should be discussed in a sexual relationship. And sleeping with a random person just because you have that *itch* , you deserve better than that!

Absolutely, I can't go a week with out some sex in my life! It's NOT a big deal guys do it and so does all my friends. There's nothing wrong with a girl having some fun.

I don't do it- I'm married- but I don't have any objections to it. Anything that happens between consensual adults is none of my business, though I do think everyone who engages in it should take the necessary precautions against pregnancy and disease. I don't think it's an issue of a man using your body- if you want sex and seek it out, but don't want a relationship, you're using his body just as much as he's using yours. And certainly, sex CAN be a spiritual experience, but it isn't always, and it's not degrading to anyone to enjoy it solely as a physical experience. We are mammals, after all.

I am totally for casual sex as long as your safe. Right now, I have three friends with benefits that are girls and one friends with benefits that is a guy.

I don't knock anyone who does it. But it doesn't work for me.

I've tried the friends with benefits, but it always feels like," we have sex when the guy wants to, and the guy is never available when I want to". which sucks, because then, I feel used.

And I don't like hooking up with a guy I just met. It never turns out like Sex and the City where you end up dating him until you find out he has a weird habit. Nope, you just feel kinda dirty the next morning, because you know you will never hear from him again.

It's funny, because i'm not conservative otherwise.

yes, of coarse whats the fun of just sleeping with one guy, have a bit of fun, but don't o overdoo it

I think its perfectly fine as long as both people agree its nothing serious, but its not for me, I need to be comfortable with someone before that can happen, and it means something to me so I would end up getting attached to the guy and then getting hurt of course...ha.

No, I hate casual sex. That's just not me at all.

That would be a big NO for me.

I don't judge people who have lots of casual sex under the age of 30. It falls into the category of stupid things people do and like smoking weed or getting trashed, it's best saved for college but if it leaks into your early adulthood, fine. I tried it. It's not for me because I don't want to get an STD and also, the more random it is, the less good it is. No one has mindblowing sex with some guy from a bar. I'm all about the quality.

when i was younger it was OK for me , now I'm in a committed relationship i don't feel the need to go to a bar and pick up a stranger, but i have some friend who do that , and as long that they are having safe sex i'm fine with that - here are my 2 cent.

No

I guess the main thing is SAFETY! As long as it's safe, why not?

I think it's dumb that sex is about as special these days as hand holding. I'm not waiting for marriage, but I'm waiting until I'm in love. I feel no rush to lose my virginity and it's not something I want to regret.

NO!

I'm w/ Masqueraded_Angel-- I used to think it was Ok but I could never just walk away from it without feeling some attachment. Not for me!

i say no for me..but for other people it doesn't bother me in the slightest.

I enjoy it, but don't prefer it. However, I can't deny that having sex with more people has taught me a lot of things. I still sleep with my ex sometimes (who I dated for two and a half years and had lotsssssssssssss of sex with) and he actually loves the fact that I've been with multiple people (men and women) since him, because I've learned new tricks and become more comfortable with my body and my sexuality. I don't feel like I need to apologize for that.

I would be for it if it were like it is in movies or Sex and the City. It's never as romantic as it is on screen. Even if you initiate it, want it, and are emotionally OK with it, the man will ALWAYS think he used you. There will always be a smug smirk in his heart, regardless of how often he tells you he "understands" or thinks you're "cool" for doing so. Of course he does!!

And there are things that as a modern woman, we are "supposed" to do. That's just not true. Even in this day and age there are girls who don't have casual sex, don't do drugs, don't drink underage or in excess after 21, don't smoke, and those girls are extraordinary. So why strive to just be ordinary?