Sorry, I chose to dump. I've never been a huge fan of his either way.

He is adorable with his little girl, though.

I chose "do." I just love a good round of marry, shag or toss off a cliff. There used to be a very entertaining live journal devoted to it.

Ooo this is new isn't it Dear?

Anyway..I would dump..I'm not very attracted to him at all

Can there be an "Ignore" option? I wouldn't go near him with a 10 foot pole. Yuck.

Yes, I'm with Popgoestheworld. Not a fan of Ben...

Do...lol. He seems to boring to marry.

DO! I hope this becomes a regular feature!!

Meh. I like him more now than I did a few years ago but I still chose dump.

lol i agree with ladyp & CCsugar

Yes, it is Tatti33, I hope you like it! I thinks this feature is going to be really fun, so feel free to give me some suggestion on people you would want to see on DearSugar.

I'm with Dear - marry! Not a huge fan of his work, but he's attractive and could take me to Red Sox games.

if there were three that i had to choose from, it would depend on the other two....but as it stands, dump. i was always a "damon" girl; not an "affleck."

im not attracted to him, but i would definately DO him cuz he's hot!!!!!!
Just for the fun and excitement of it....Sugarlicious Lysia

I'd do him.

God, I felt so like a GUY saying that!

I like him but I wouldn't want to do any of the 3 to him

Ooh, fun game.

I chose Dump in the sense of "Never Get Together." I don't dislike him, but I've never been a fan either.

I would marry. He's got a great sense of humour and he's not bad on the eyes. Kinda funny, I was just watching Mallrats with DVD commentary and he's wickedly funny. It's definitely a must if you love Kevin Smith movies to listen to the commentary tracks with Ben. Dogma rocks.

Um... I would befriend? Haha.

Do. He does seem a little boring, but he's not a bad looking guy and I could do, and have done, much worse

I'll do him

I'll do him.

I'm with jenintx. Love Matt Damon. I'd only do affleck

during the jlo period- i'd say dump. but he's redeemed himself a bit so i vote do now

MARY! He's so cute, and funny. Yes, I listen and watch my Kevin Smith commentary just for Ben. I was SOOOO mad when he got with his wife. I thought he was too good for Jen. She jumped to him way too soon after a breakup for my taste. I hoped it wouldn't last, but now I wish them well, as in reality he'd never look at me so he might as well be happy.

Doooooooooo

if i absolutely didn't have to hear him speak or interact with him in any other manner, perhaps i would say "do." that would depend, however, on the size of his ... ahem ... tackle. that would need to be VERY impressive.

DO!! I know I sound so R-rated right along with some some peole. But if it's Orlando Bloom...well I hope marry is still an option! lol ;D

Wow, a three-way division! He may be from MA like me, but I would dump him because I just don't find him sexy enough to do or interesting enough to marry

tall, dark and handsome. Good with kids, funny...wealthy. I'd marry him in a heartbeat!

I'd definitely marry! He's good looking, talanted, a sports fan, and a great dad... what more could a girl ask for? =)

Definitely dump- I've never been a fan.

A geek and a sports fan. It's my fave combo, so I'd have to go with marry.

Dump - never been much attracted to him after the whole Bennifer ordeal.

I chose marry...that way the "doing" is implied! haha

marry.

I wouldn't marry him. He seems half engaged when it comes to Garner, she seems to do most of the work IMO. I don't think he's really marriage material. His wife seems willing to work to make him into that man, but I'd pass honestly.

Dump- he's ok but, meh!

I'll marry him

Dump, like whoa. Too much of a womaniser, imo. He'll return to type eventually - that's if he ever deviated from.

I'd marry him!

Oh my god, didn't he date Jennifer Lopez? Definitely dumped.

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Gimme more!

i think he's been looking pretty good lately

His eyes look really mean in the above image.

Not my type...

Not my type...