What do you do if you were casually dating someone, it was about to potentially go to the next level, but you get scared, run away, come back, open up about all the things you were keeping from him, and then become friends?

I feel so emotionally torn. I was pretty into him, although, maybe the distance we've set has made the heart grow fonder. Anyway, I'm not sure if he can be anything more than a friend to me. Any time he texts or emails, I am delighted, but then I ask myself, where is it going from here?

I can tell that I am attaching my emotions to his actions. I’m tired of trying to read into the situation. At this point, I don’t think that dating him would necessarily make me happy. I just wasn’t ready to give up on the relationship, but I had been holding so much back that it wasn’t going to grow. Should I give up on him as a potential romantic partner? Should I hold back on my friendship towards him?

What would you do?

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