My first kiss was not a positive experience, and because of that I will never forget what happened. It was the end of 8th grade. I was at a graduation party, and my beloved boyfriend Bobby and I went for a quiet walk around the block. We both kind of knew our first kiss was going to happen since everyone was talking about it.
He asked if I wanted to sit down on the curb, and I remember being so nervous!! We both moved closer together to each other, I closed my eyes and all I remember is him shoving his tongue down my throat. I had this vision of a squirmy snake wriggling in my mouth. My eyes shot open, but I kept with it, hoping it would get better, and secretly praying it would end soon. Well, that kiss lasted for about 10 seconds and I vowed never to kiss again. A far cry from My Girl!
So what about you? What was your first REAL kiss like? Was it a good experience that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy when you think back to it or was it as horrible as mine?









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Haha mine was awful! Almost exactly like yours!
1I was in 7th grade and it was practically an appointment. He was my boyfriend, and we rendezvoused in my friend's kitchen and there it happened. it was gross and saliva-tastic. Awful. I had no idea what I was doing.
Mine was horrid. It was with this nasty guy who practically shoved his tounge between my closed lips like a snake- EWWWWWW. Thinking about it makes me squeam.
2Awful.
3My face was soaking wet with spit after he had finished doing whatever it was that he did. It actually scarred me for a while because I was terrified that ALL guys kiss like that.
My first "real" kiss was okay. I was really nervous, but it wasn't gross or over tongued, lol. I just recall thinking wow, I just got my real kiss!
4i was really shy in high school into college so i didnt get kissed til i was 23! embarassing i know. it was this guy who id worked with who was with someone else. he has jsut broken up with her. we were headed to diff grad schools and were at one last party. i have to say maybe it was worth waiting for cuz it was FABULOUS. though im not really in touch with him it still gives me the shivers.
5My first 'real' kiss was actually very nice, and very sweet. I was hanging out with this guy, and I knew he was going to kiss me, but I wasn't sure when. When he actually did move in, I turned my head so he kissed my cheek (gaa!), then he said, "Do you have any idea how much guts that took for me to do that?" Then, finally, he kissed me. No tongue, just a simple, sweet kiss.
6Don't be embarassed alltherage! I didn't get my first kiss until 18, because I was very shy and etc too. But my first kiss was actually in the movie theatre. It was my first date with my boyfriend of two years, who I'm still with happily! He leaned over and whispered "kiss me" and something about the way he said it was so cute and romantic to me. It wasn't amazing, but it was romantic in some sense, hehe. It was better because no one was around~
7It was okay.
8I had a similar experience to Le Luxe.
9I loved my first kiss. It was the summer between jr. high and high school. I had a GIANT crush on this guy, he was already in high school (he was going to be a sophomore, I was going to be a freshman), and all summer he came to my house every day and we hung out, he liked my friends and my little brother. He always brought me stuff, a rose, a stuffed animal, anything that let me knew he was thinking of me.
So one day we were sitting in the front yard on the stairs of this deck that my parents used to have, we were just talking. Then there was a pause in the conversation and he leaned in and kissed me. It was so soft and tender, I felt a rush of warmth all over my entire body and there were giant butterflies in my stomach. This must be love for sure.
*SIGH*
10Mine wasn't fantastic because of the situation. I was at a Soul Coughing concert in 10th grade with some friends. I started dancing with some random guy (don't even know his name) and he kissed me. Looking back he was a decent kisser, but it was a real shock.
11OH, memories! I was in the 10th grade, it was New Year's Eve... we went for a walk around the block and I knew it was coming. It wasn't horrible, but it wasn't fantastic either. I think he may have had some kind of funny odor on his breath.
12Mine was in 5th grade with a guy I had a huge crush on. We kissed in a limo on the way to a girl's birthday party. It was actually really good, surprisingly.
And btw, I realize it's absurd that my friend had a limo for what must have been her 10th or 11th b-day party.
13Haha, mine wasn't until I was 16 (I think? 16 or 17, I was a late bloomer) and he was a good kisser. I on the other hand didn't know what I was doing and he kinda called me out on that. Not gonna lie, it killed the moment a bit. (In my defence I don't think I was bad--it's not like a spit all over him!)
14i was 14 and at a school dance. it was a guy i met that night (he went to another school) and he pulled me to the side of the gym and...started raping my face with his tongue!!!! ugh, it was so much freakin saliva and i had to wipe my face on his shirt when it was done.
however, we did "go steady" for two weeks after and then i broke it off with him b/c i didn't feel "the chemistry." haha!!!! it always makes for a great story!
15Lol. I was 14 and had a HUGE crush on the guy. when he stuck his tongue in my mouth I just kind of sat there. Haha it makes me laugh to this day. We've stayed friends over the years and I got the chance to make up for it later
16Mine was actually really amazing! He was a few years older than I was, so he wasn't anywhere near as awkward as I was (hah!). We were sitting on my bed watching a movie and he kept kissing my neck and cheek and everywhere AROUND my mouth, until I finally grabbed him and kissed him first! That was 7 years ago, and I still get to kiss him sometimes
We've actually stayed best friends. Good thing he was a good kisser! Hah!
17it was so awful!! i was in the ninth grade and kinda dating this guy my friends set me up with. (i really just spent the whole week hiding from him.) so he was walking me to basketball practice after school, and i kinda had the idea he was going to kiss me so i was running a mad defense. anyways, he kinda surprised me and just barely brushed his lips on mine and then like rubbed his cheek on mine (and he had bad acne so it was weird!)
i remember thinking right after it happened, "OK, that was my first kiss, but it doesn't count. I'm not counting it." i broke up with him over the phone like the next week. ha. it's funny now, but it was heartbreaking then.
18thanks Femmekid! you are right. cuz it was a great memory. yours sounds pretty sweet too! it was funny after he kissed me i blurted out yeah taht was my first kiss. he was like well that's honorable. hehehe whatever that means. guess i didnt freak him out cuz he kept kissing me. sigh
19Aww, Rubialala! That's so sweet. I wish my very first kiss was that nice.
Actually, I don't remember many of the details of my first kiss, just that it wasn't too horrible. It did involve tongue, though, which was a little much for the first kiss. (The idiot knew it was my first kiss, too.) That was my first boyfriend.
The worst kiss ever was with my second boyfriend. It was our first kiss & he immediately shoved his tongue all the way to my tonsils. All I could think of was "what the hell?!!" and "his tongue is huge". I think he was trying to touch my toes. I actually had to stop him & school him on the proper way of kissing. My coworker actually saw it & she said it looked like he was trying to suck the life out of me. It was so horrible.
I don't remember my first kiss with my third boyfriend. It was that uneventful. He was a dud & a mama's boy.
I'm telling about the boyfriends so that I can get to the very best one. My fourth boyfriend & I were dating for a month before we actually kissed. (He was as shy as I was.) All of our friends knew it & one day they surrounded my car (literally--on the top & all sides) & would not let us out until we kissed. That was the sweetest first kiss, no tongue & a little bit lingering. It was perfect. That was back in college & I haven't had another boyfriend since. He is now my husband & we always have a laugh at the memory of all those faces, pressed to the windows, watching!
It's true girls, you have to kiss a few frogs to find your prince! So cheesy!
20Nicachica, I just read your post. That is so freaking funny!
21It was the summer before eight grade...we were living at a friend's place till we could find a house (military and had just moved back stateside...) He was a neighborhood kid... Very good kisser...made for a fun couple of weeks...hehehe
22I was 16 I think.. maybe 17. He asked me if he could kiss me, which kinda sucked all the fun and excitement right out if the experience! I like being surprised
It wasn't a great first kiss anyway though.
23mine was in the middle, at lest he asked to do the French kiss but it didnt last long
24I feel bad for all of you that say your first kiss was awful! Mine was great. It was with a guy who was a jerk, but I felt on top of the world when he kissed me
He was a great kisser.
25I had my first kiss when I was in the 6th grade. My parents' house was directly behind my grammar school and I would always hop the fence to play basketball with the guys!! Unfortunately I was looked at as one of the guys!!! Or as their little sister!! Any way, I had a heart stopping crush on the most popular boy in my class. He knew he could date anyone he wanted and was used to all the attention from all the girls. I tried very hard not to betray myself and would always have my guard up around him. None of the other guys realized I was gag over him but he definitely picked up on it!!! Probably his huge ego detected it!!! So, any way, I was in the schoolyard shooting baskets alone one afternoon when he came riding up to me on his bike. We had portable classrooms directly behind the regular building and he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk. We ended up sitting on the steps out of my parents' view and then he told me he liked me. He wanted to know if I liked him too. I said yes and then he leaned in. I felt the scruffy peach fuzz on his upper lip and his lips were closed and tightly pressed up to mine. I remember thinking he smelled like Doublemint gum and his breath was warm. I had my eyes closed when he grabbed my hand and placed it on his crotch!!! He then asked if I felt how much he liked me.I pulled my hand away immediately and then he kissed me again with an open mouth and tongue this time! It was very gentle and warm even though he wound up being a total jerk!!! It never led to anything else but I secretly lusted after him for years!!! And damn, he's a millionaire living in Texas these days!!!!And still a jerk!
26My first kiss was really sweet and tender. I screwed it up after about two seconds because I was like, "Huh? What's going on?" But it got back on track after that.
Of course, the unfortunate epilogue is that the guy turned out to be gay. I was his last-ditch attempt to be straight. Later, his parents sent him to some hardcore fundamentalist Christian re-education camp, so then he was "straight" again. Then he went to college and now Facebook says he's interested in men and women, whatever that means.
I'm not bitter; I find the whole situation hilarious. Except for the part about the hardcore fundamentalist Christian re-education camp. That doesn't sound so fun.
27I was 14 ,he was 15 and it happened in the summer. It was sweet and I was so happy because i had really liked him alot.We eventually ended up dating for 11 years.......
28OOOHHHH my first kiss.... was 9th grade, at my high schools basketball game. It was with this guy who a friend had set me up with (he went to a private school and had seen me at a party) and we talked on the phone for hours at a time. When finally both able to and it so funny because after hours on the phone it was really akward at first. But then there was this moment in time where all the noise seemed to go away and the next thing I remember we were kissing. I was great I felt like the we were the 2 in the room. But then we broken up by the giggle of my friends behind us. I'll never forget it!!! I have no clue where is at this moment
29my first real kiss was awesome. i was really into the guy and i had waited for almost a year before he knew how i felt!
but here's the bad part: the very next day, he fell down the stairs at his house and sustained a head injury which knocked out his memory from about 2 months prior to the accident: basically the part where we started seeing each other. it also made him a very angry person. things did not end well, years later.
so, in short, he doesn't know he kissed me, and i'm going to keep it that way.
30Mine was....blah. I was 17 and dated this guy I knew since 5th grade. He was crushing on me for 2 years and we were going to the Valentine's Dance together. He kissed me when he was walking me to my drama class. My best friend almost died of laughter 'cause he saw the 'first kiss look' on my face and he told me I could do better. The guy broke up with me two days before the dance.
31Awww Dear! How cute! I was on the floor of my friend's house with my boyfriend (15 yrs old) watching Dance's With Wolves because he did not have cable. We were just lying next to each other and then it just happened. He was a great kisser, so I was nervous with heart pounding and all, but it was really nice... ah, the memories...
32Grade 7. I really liked this guy and my friend told me that he liked me but was too nervous to do anything so she arranged a game of truth of dare. She dated Taylor to kiss me. We "dated" for like that week and that was it. I remember it being sloppy and wet. Not what I was expecting. My next "real kiss" came from my boyfriend like 7 years later, so shy in high school, and it was perfect.
Best kiss though was when I kissed my husband when we got married. The first kiss is great but nothing beats "you may now kiss your bride" kiss.
33Mine was nice.
34He was 3 years older than me so he taught me. He was my first boyfriend as well. He took me to the park and we talked for a long time. As he came close to me he would taouch my face and grab my hand. He was very sweet and gentle and didn't relly use his tongue that much. I didn't feel scared nor intimidated.
it was a learning experience.
35My first real kiss was crap! It was an honest to god, straight out of a movie make out party. It was clear that all the boys planned that they were going to "make out" at this party. My "boyfriend" asked his friends to leave the room and pretty much attacked me. THEN he felt me up AND told his friends. I was too embarrassed to tell my girlfriends, but they found out anyway, and told their moms. This was in 8th grade, not the best year.
36omg!
37mine was in 5th or 6th grade
yeahh at a birthday party
ughh really awkward
i dont even remember it really..
tryed to cover things i dont
want to remeber up.
My first kiss was unfortunately bad.I probably wasn't the best kisser at that time, but he was worse! He was sucking and his saliva was all over. I got so disgusted that I pushed him away! Haha. That happened when I was 15. I still get goosebumps when I think of it.
38My first kiss happened with one of those little childhood sweet hearts you have...we were maybe eleven and fiddled with the idea of kissing one another all evening. Finally we did and it was a brief peck on the lips and then he told me he had just wanted the experience, and didnt think we should make anything of it. Even at that age, thats the answer I got, I kid you not! Sweet, huh?
39My first kiss happened with one of those little childhood sweet hearts you have...we were maybe eleven and fiddled with the idea of kissing one another all evening. Finally we did and it was a brief peck on the lips and then he told me he had just wanted the experience, and didnt think we should make anything of it. Even at that age, thats the answer I got, I kid you not! Sweet, huh?
40Mine was terrible...(my first real one). I was 16 and went to a bar near my friends house, we met some friends of her neighbor and one asked for my number so I gave it to him (I don't know why... he wasn't even my type).
So we went back to our friends house and he showed up with her neighbor and we were all hanging out. So I ended up in the room alone with him and he turns off the lights and closes the door and he sits next to me and just plain stuck out his tongue on my lips. So we kept kissing and he pushed me down on the bed and started pulling on my shirt. Somewhere along the way I told him to stop (before he pulled my shirt up) but he just kept saying we wouldn't do anything I wasn't comfortable with, so I made up some stupid excuse to get him off me and we sort of left.
Anyway it was gross he was a terrible kisser, one of those sloppy kissers...AND a smoker (come to think of it every single guy I've kissed has been a smoker).
Anyway my friend and the other guy were both drunk and somehow I ended up in her room alone with the guy again and he sat next to me and said sorry and i said it was allright in a really icy sarcastic tone. I wouldn't even look at him so he tell me to look at him and tell him its ok, because he doesn't believe me, so when I said its fine he just grabbed me and came at me with his wet lips again. I just turned my head, and he ended up kissing hair.
So then I said I was leaving and went out the door but he called me back, so I turned around and he gives me a kiss on the forehead. I hate kisses on the forehead I think they're completely hypocritical, and cheesy. I just don't like them and unless its my family, who I'll forgive for being cheeseballs I don't want anyone kissing my forehead. I'm not a puppy or a baby.
Anyway, now that I think about this whole thing it was a really stupid situation because I put myself into it, it wasn't even that I was naïve, because I've know since I was a kid the way men's minds work. I guess I was just insecure, and I still am, just I while ago I was in a similar situation and I went further than I wanted to. I guess you've got to learn from experience, huh? I am happy to say that I'm at a better place, and I understand I don't need any pseudo-player in my life, who just want to feel me up, when they haven't even bothered to know my last name.
41my first kiss was when i was 18. i was soo shy and nervous but it was with this guy who i had a crush on for awhile. we had a class together but he moved away, then came back a year later and we ran into each other. he used to call me all the time and hung out with my friends and i all summer, and then towards the end of the summer he confessed to my best friend that he liked me.
42he asked me to the movies and i was TERRIFIED the entire time but at the same time i wanted to kiss him really bad. we went back to his house and cuddled. on our 2nd date i told him i wasn't experienced at all and he got the hint, and then on our third date at this house he kissed me. it was really sweet because he let me decide when i wanted to. he was an amazing kisser too. we ended up seeing each other for like a month and then he got pissed because i didn't want to sleep with him so he stopped calling me.
but i still don't regret him being my first kiss.
My first kiss is not what I have always dreamt of. It happened when I was 17, the guy was a playboy, probably had too many experiences. He only became my boyfriend because of " peer pressure " and curiosity - he's my first boyf. It happened at the the most unromantic and unmemorable place and he sort of just "stole" our first kiss (or smack I should say) then one thing lead to another. No cuudling, no passion, no tenderness...just blahh!
43I was actually quite young (early grade school) and I remember we were going home on the bus. I remember his name and I remember that we both liked the same hockey team. I don't remember how exactly it happened, but we ended up kissing on the bus. I do remember thinking "ok, that was it?" and it was quite a few years before I kissed someone again. I don't do well with firsts, with the exception of one amazing first kiss with someone while I was in college.
44My first real kiss was SO romantic! I wish all my others could have been that way. It was with my first ever boyfriend and we were over at my friends house outside, and I was sitting in his lap and he just kissed me. It was so sweet, we were under the stars and everything. I loved that night.
45My first kiss was something I could spew vomit over and still have the vomit on the ground taste better. My first kiss went to my first boyfriend who stuck his lips on my lips and then his tongue into my mouth. The transition between the two is too blurred out. There was a whole lot of spit and I didn't like the way his spit tasted. It wasn't that his breath was bad or anything...I just didn't like the way his saliva tasted! It doesn't irk me as much, seeing as it was when I was 15. But it's still a bad memory.
46My first kiss was ok. Not terrible, but not the best kiss I've ever had either. We were dancing, and he was looking into my eyes, and then he kissed me. I remember afterwards he told me I was a great kisser, which I was happy about since I'd never done it before.
47I was very scared on my first kiss, it was with my first and only real bf who I am still with now.It was after a movie and we were in his car talking bout the movie when all of a sudden he put his hand on my face leand in and kissed me tongue and all.for my first kiss I was not ready for all that but hell I went with it and loved every moment of it.lol so yeah I guess my first kiss was great!!! I likeddddd LOL
484th grade on the monkey bars with my childhood best friend. no joke. i pushed him off and ran, haha and we both got sent to the principles office: me, for pushing him off the monkey bars, and him for insisting on kissing me every opportunity he got. it was embarrassing at the time, but sweet many years later. i still tease him about it when we see each other =]
49Hmmmm. My first real kiss was with this boy I had a big crush on. I was 14 so I can't remember much, BUT I do remember wanting to kiss him all the time and practicing like 10 times a day with him and keeping track of it all =o]. Now my first meaningful kiss with someone that I cared about (puppylove or whatever) came a year later with a high school boyfriend. He was so sweet and it totally was not awkward at all. Awwww those days
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