If he's in a band he probably has women like you in every city. No offense, but that's one of the perks of being famous.

So I wouldn't hold your breath. I'd just assume that you'll hook up when he comes through NY.

I agree with popgoestheworld. He sounds like a great hook up guy, but difficult to have as a boyfriend...

definitely a hook up guy. and if you do have a relationship with this guy, 6 months is a mighty long time. i couldn't deal with a 6 month dry spell while i was in a relationship.

He's not in a band

If he travels all around the world, and you know that you can't have anything happening with him, then don't wait.
Find a guy that DOES hang around, even if you're really attracted to him right now.

If he can't be in your town more than a few days/a few months at a time, it's going to be hard to develop anything serious between the two of you, at least for the moment.

How close are you with this man now? Do you think you may be more infatuated with his talent/fame more than really liking him as a person? After your night together, have you guys been in constant communication? Who initiates the communication?

If you like him, since he's not around that often, I guess you can try by confessing to him about it, be honest about what you want (if you want to try long distance bf-gf relationship or just a fwb or etc) and see how he reacts, there's nothing to lose about this because 1) you'll find out sooner than later by how he reacts toward you after you tell him 2) he's in town rarely so you'll probably recover pretty quick (IF IF he rejects you). But beware with guys who sweet talk you too because they want someone to warm their bed when they're in town, don't be a fwb unless you're not expecting anything else but the benefits.

Good luck to you!

P.S You shouldn't put your life on hold for him, have fun, and if you meet other cute boys along the way, go out..date!

Thanx, nevaeh1978. Very good advice. We have spoken since, and i know i'll stay in touch with him b/c he is someone i love to go see, but b/c i listen to his music all the time, he's kindda always on my mind...and i can't get away from it. lol. I decided i'll just leave it alone and let things work themselves out. If he feels it's worth it, im sure i'll know thanx!

Maybe It's John Mayor. I don't know if the person is actually a celeb but he doesn't sound like he's giving you much time or respect so I say ditch his guitar playing butt.

I say he sounds more of the "friends with benefit" type guy not boyfriend material. If you are looking for a "real" relationship and commitment I suggest you find you another guy.

since this situation has never happened between you guys before, i dont think it something you should get hung up on. it happened, and thats it really. dont try to make somethign of it, you two had the chance before hand and didnt do anything, so im thinking there really isnt anything there but friendship. and the fact that your asking a website on what to do, means that your really not secure in his feelings for him, meaning that they're not really that strong.

i could be wrong though, but either way, dont spend too much time obsessing over this.

It sounds like you know the answer - he'll probably call you when he's going to be around but that's it. If he wanted more then he'd make an effort, wouldn't he? It sounds to me like you're starstruck.

lol, im not at all starstruck. i've known him for quite a while, and althought nothing ever happened before this, we did talk everyday :/ just a bad situation, that's all. guess i want more and i know nothing will come out of this and it makes me sad

have as much fun as you can, and tell your grand children about it.

ummm...first you said he's NOT in a band and then you said you listen to his music all the time. What, is he a composer or a lyricist? Next time leave out the 'he's famous' part. This could happen to any woman with any guy. I'd say don't bother with the hook up next time around and maintain a good friendship. When/if your paths meet up in a better situation, go from there.

dont waste your time. he probably has girls in every city. find someone new...

Ask yourself if you and him have anything in common. Do you work in the same field? Do you have mutual friends? Go to the same gym? Live in the same building? Does it seem likely that the two of you would at some point dated? These are the things that he thinks about when he considers if someone should be his girlfriend. If the answers are no, ask yourself why you want to be his girlfriend. You will meet many people you get along well with that, you are attracted to, that you wouldn't end up dating. Then ask yourself what he would think about you if he knew that. The answer to your question will become odvious.

This is a tough situation. You are the only one hurt. You have the constant worrying of wondering if he is being faithful to you. And if he is not the chance to see it in a tabloid. And he goes on happily with his life, doing what he loves, and no consequence of the pain you are suffering back in NY. BEst of luck with this.

i'm dying 2 kon who the celeb is...plz tell me in a message...plz

WHO IS IT? LOL

I don't think it matters really..lol. That's no the reason i wrote this I'm feeling better about the situation though. I'm trying to block it out of my mind.

plz plz plz tell m e who it was the curiosity is killing me..lol..nah it's ok each to their own

Interpol played a concert in NYC last Friday, but she says he's not in a band... either way, unless he is as serious about you, I would consider him a hook-up.

Brag. Just kidding. Rock stars.....they just aren't worth it. Stick with someone who will stick around.