Losing your virginity is a life changing experience and something that you will remember for the rest of your life. According to a previous poll, 33% of you lost your v-card between the ages of 15-18, which leads me to believe that your first time was chock full of trial and error. Now that you are older and more experienced, do tell, if you could change one thing about the first time you had sex, what would you change?
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Do Tell: Would You Change Anything About Your First Time?
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I wouldn't change anything, I thought it was nice
1Ditto......
2Haha I don't think I remember my first time, I dunno why I don't...I wasn't drunk or stoned or anything but I just don't remember my "very" first time...
3I would change the who the why and the where.
4First time? I would change EVERYTHING about it. Gross guy, situation, time in my life, etc. Bleh
5It was with my first love when I was in college. It was both of our first times, and we were so smitten. Really it was the best experience a girl could hope for.
6It was with my husband and I wouldn't change a thing.
7It was with the man I'm going to marry, and it was pretty much everything I had hoped for, so, no, wouldn't change anything.
8NOPE!
9I would change EVERYTHING. I wasn't ready at the time and I cried for months afterwords.
10I don't believe in thinking back to "I'd like to change..." What's happened has shaped my life and I wouldn't be where I am today without even the littlest things.
11And the correct phrase is "chock-full."
12no i dont think i would change mine.. its kinda funny! haha.. and i like looking back on it and laughin a little bit
13sigh...i would have waited. and i wouldn't have done it with my then-boyfriend.
14I'm with nicachica in that I wish I would have waited. The guy I lost my v-card to didn't realize how much it meant to me.
I would much rather have lost it to my current boyfriend :\
15Thinking back on it I would like to change it, the guy was a major a-hole but then again I don't because it shaped my teenage years and made me the person I am now.
16i would be sober.
17I definetly should have waited until I was ready.
18I loved the guy and the only other person I've been with since him is my husband. I wouldn't change anything except for maybe the fact that we didn't break up 2 months after it happened...but then again, I wouldn't have met my hubby
19I'd be a 32-year-old virgin if I could. My first time was with someone I had lukewarm feelings for, but after sex I got totally into him. He turned out to be a complete jerk and pretty much soured me on dating for about 4 years.
20I would've changed the person. It turns out he wasn't as caring or nice as he had made himself sound. I wish I had chosen a better person and not rushed into it because everyone else was doing it.
21I would've changed the person. It turns out he wasn't as caring or nice as he had made himself sound. I wish I had chosen a better person and not rushed into it because everyone else was doing it.
22I should have waited. I was way too young and felt pressured into it.
23I wouldn't change it. We were young & in love. No pressure or anything, just right timing.
24I lost it to my husband, and the only thing I'd change was making sure that both of us knew the best way to put a condom on (he snapped himself with it, poor guy!)
25If I could change anything at the age of 13, i would prefer that it would have been by choice rather than by brutal rape.
26No I wouldn't.
27Then I didn't care..but now when I think about it, I would like to change pretty much everything:/
28The best advice I was ever given about sex was during my first few weeks as a freshman in college from a senior in college: "Don't do it until you're ready". Quite simple really, but they stuck with me until I was ready. It wasn't special, it wasn't a big deal, I was just ready to take this step in my life. I was 23 years old . . . now if I'd waited just 6 more months, I'd done it with the last man I'm ever going to do it with. I think it happened at the perfect time in my life, maybe not with the perfect person, but it sure is something I don't regret.
29Mine was a great experience. It was a very long time ago....but I still think very highly of the guy and the situation. Now....after that first time, it kinda went downhill a little, haha, but that time...it was nice.
30I'd change everything...he was a jerk who ended up beating me i was 16 he was 21... he got me prego and then ditched me and told me "it's not my problem..." so yeah... that sucked... but it made me who i am today!! I'm a lot stronger for it.
31I would change everything! I was too young, stupid, no self-esteem, etc. & was pressured into it.
To be completely honest, I would probably still be a virgin right now if I could change things. Actually, I would probably change it to my husband, if I could. I would also change his first time to me!
32Ms K2 Love.....How terrible for you. I would change yours before I would change mine. Stay strong whenever you let any of that memory slip back in.
33Wouldn't change a thing. It was with my first serious boyfriend, at the age of 19, we were in love...it was perfect. What I would change is what happened in between him and my husband. LOL.
34I would have channged the person..He was a mosh pitt, grunge guy..eww..what was I thinking!!?
35I'm completely happy the way it happened. I was totally ready...and I wasn't pressured at all. He waited for me to be ready which I really respected, AND he was my absolute DREAM GUY (who I'm still with btw ^^ hehe)
36I'd definitely change the guy
37Far,far too young and not at all special.....I do wish I'd waited a few more years. Nice enough guy...we even did it a second time with as much fumbling as the first time! Did bump into each other in pub many years later and had a laugh about it......some things really do get better with practice!
38Was with my hubby, so no:)
39One word:
LUBE.
I only lost mine July 11th, so I'm new to this club but I've learned pretty quickly that wetness makes a huge difference. MY first time was so painful (I could've sworn he was skinning em from the inside out), that I kept saying, "f*ck! OWWW. Ow ow ow." which is totally romantic, and my leg muscles locked up so tight he couldn't get too far in--needless to say neither of us came.
40I'd probably change the person. I did love him, but I just wish it hadn't been him.
41I wouldn't change anything except I wish I had been a little more relaxed. It was on our honeymoon, to my husband (duh) and while we'd fooled around a lot prior to getting married, somehow I was SUPER nervous and tense. We didn't actually fully consummate until like two days after (with the help of a bottle of wine).
Three + years later we both laugh at those first couple days of marriage...I guess I wouldn't
change them and I am so happy that I waited for my husband. He was definitely worth it. 
42i would NOT have done it at all
43I wouldn't change a thing. I waited until I was absolutely gagging for it... and then went for it. It's funny, but at the time, my boyfriend was the one who *wasn't* ready... and I pressured him into it. Needless to say, it was the best decision we've ever made!
44I would change everything!!! I was 19 and it was my wedding night!!!! I had had oral sex before but never intercourse. My first husband, was very selfish and inconsiderate of my feelings. I remember going into the bathroom afterwards and saying to myself, "I waited for that?" It left me empty and sad. Once his needs were met mine didn't matter, we were done. It was like that the whole 7 yrs. we were married. Plus he had numerous affairs, so yeah, I'd change it all!!!!! I had 2 boyfriends after my divorce and before meeting my fabulous new husband!!!! I figured out what I liked and how to ask for it!!!! Then man of my dreams puts me first, then himself!! We're married 17 yrs.!!!!And we add something new to the mix all the time. It's great!!!
45i don't know yet. maybe the fact that i'd get rid of the pain. neither of us came. i'm just hoping that he'll be the one i'm with all the way through to death.
46well, i will let you know if there's anything i would change after it actually happens
47I'd change it. I was rushed and pressured. Eventually I just gave in. It was weak of me to do that and should've stood up for myself more. I was 19.
The guy turned out to be a complete psycho and made my life a living hell afterwards.
48I was 15 when I lost mine, he was 16, very young. It was on a couch in the den at his families house, and everyone was home! How we got away with it I will never know. I was in soo much pain I wouldnt let him get in very far, so it was horrible for both of us. I would change the location for sure, and have put more planning and discussion into it. I would not change the guy, as that boy who I lost it to is now my husband.
49Definitely would change the location. We did it upstairs, in his parents house while they were watching TV right below us. HOW DISRESPECTFUL!!! I will kill my kids if they are ever so rude.
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