It was like 2 weeks into our relationship and we were spending every free minute we had together. We were about to go out and meet his friends for dinner and he sat me down on hsi bed and
said "I know we haven't known each other that long, but, I love you. I fu**ing love you!" I'll never forget that.
He was!
And I made sure of that...even though i was pretty sure I loved him before he told me, I didn't want to tell him first and scare him off.
I knew my man needed some time and space, and so I gave that to him and in the end it all worked out pretty good!
And even now, we don't say EVERYTIME we talk on the phone, or everytime the other person says it.
I told him that when he says it, he should mean it. He shoudln't feel like he has to say it that second because I did and vice versa. I want him to feel love when he says it, and for him to
truely mean it with all his heart.
My husband was. We'd only been serious for a few weeks. I totally thought he just he was in love. He didn't pressure me and said he knew it was so soon and he didn't want me to say it back
but that he needed to tell me how he felt. I finally told him a few months later.
A lot of guys just know, I think. They go home after a first date and say that's the woman I'm going to marry. I've seen this happen with many guy friends. Me and my girlfriends are
much more cautious about our feelings..
In my last relationship he was the first one. I had to wait him out because he had some "issues" he was dealing with and I didn't want to freak him out. I probably should have taken that as a
sign that things weren't going to work out...
I have only really been in love twice and both times I said it first.
I actually got mad at my husband when I told him I was in love with him bc I didnt want him to say it right back without thinking about it- but he insisted that he didnt need to think about
it. I just wanted to make sure he was really ready to say it to me- now looking back the whole thing (me getting mad) it just funny.
I have only really been in love twice and both times I said it first.
I actually got mad at my husband when I told him I was in love with him bc I didnt want him to say it right back without thinking about it- but he insisted that he didnt need to think about
it. I just wanted to make sure he was really ready to say it to me- now looking back the whole thing (me getting mad) it just funny.
He was and he was drunk--it was New Years Eve. I didn't respond for two weeks until he said it again without me coaxing or asking about that night. That way I knew it was the truth and not
booze talking.
I honestly don't remember if it was me or my husband. We were actually trying to remember this the other day.
It was probably both of us at the same time. From the moment we met we were inseparable...still are...and probably after 3 weeks or so I know I started joking around when he would slam me (we
love to make fun of each other, jokingly of course) and I would "love you too." It was probably sometime after that.
I knew I was too scared to say it first because I knew he was the one and I didn't want to screw it up!
With my previous longterm boyfriend, it was he who said it first. He was drunk, I was 18, and I didn't know what to say so I just kissed him.
My husband was, he was 14 and I was 15 and he said it over the phone because we lived in different states and I was like whoa, don't you think it's a little soon for that? And he said no that
he was in love and it took until we moved there for me to say it. And I realize now that we probably didn't know what it really meant at the time because I know now what it feels like to love
him more than anything.
HE was!! =D well actually before that he really hinted that he wanted to say it...he would say "I think I miss you" every time we were apart and we'd talk on the phone. And I'd say "I miss
you too"...which I think made him feel better that I was into him so eventually,
about 6 months into our relationship I had to go fly out of state for a family thing and I was going to be away from him for almost a week. That night he called when he got home from work
(bartending so it was like...1 or 2 am where I was, 3 or 4 where he was ) and he called me and just blurted out that he really missed me and he loved me so much and he couldn't wait for me to
come home. I said I love you too back (cuz I was feeling it for a while, but I didn't want to rush things...so I was relieved to hear it finally).
I had a smile plastered on my face for the rest of my trip LOL my family was probably wondering why...
He was for sure. He also told me he wanted to marry me. We still aren't married all these years later, but neither of us are really, really ready. It's been a long road and we just love being
together and no piece of paper will make that any more true. Now though, I say it much more often than he does. When he does, I know he really means it.
I'm not currently in a relationship, but in my last relationship, he said it first.
We'd been friends (who spent every spare moment together) for months. We had an argument, and suddenly he was just like "I LOVE YOU"... heh.
Sweet, but he ended up being a jerk. *sigh*
my boyfriend is very shy and i talked to one of his best friends before i did i said it, so i decided to say it first bc i knew he was too shy to do so
no idea. seems odd that i wouldn't remember but it would have been like 11 years ago that it first came up. i'm sure it was a big deal at the time, lol.
he was!! and on the first date too... we had a thing going in year 9 and now in first year uni he said, i loved you in year 9, i love you and I'll love you forever!!
He was. It was like our third date and we were making out in my house during Moulin Rouge. I'm thinking, oh.. it's only been a week. I said it back anyway. And I do now, so no harm
He was. We were drunk at a party getting busy when he said it. I ignored it until the next day. I asked, "do you remember last night?" And without asking why I was asking the question he
said, "yes, And I really meant what I said." So we talked for a bit and when I really felt he meant it, I said it back. We had only been dating seriously for 4 months, and dating casually
before that for 6.
Well I knew that I loved him and wanted to say it but could not do it since I didnt want him to think that I was crazy or anything. So one night laying in bed he looked at me and said I have
a secret for you! I LOVE YOU! And I started to cry and then said that I love you too. The rest of that night was history for us.
i did! i wasn't a serious relationship type girl and when guys would say it wouldn't ever say it! but when i knew this time i just came out and said it! it felt so good to finally know how it
felt to truly love someone! im glad i didn't throw it around before! it meant so much more!
i did! i wasn't a serious relationship type girl and when guys would say it i wouldn't ever say it back! but when i knew this time i just came out and said it! it felt so good to finally know
how it felt to truly love someone! im glad i didn't throw it around before! it meant so much more!
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Didn't we do this one just the other day?
1he was!
2i was, but it was the first time that i had been the first one to say it.
3He was, but he totally jumped the gun. It was two months before I reciprocated.
4I said it about 6 months into our relationship. He said it right back and then I cried.
5It was like 2 weeks into our relationship and we were spending every free minute we had together. We were about to go out and meet his friends for dinner and he sat me down on hsi bed and said "I know we haven't known each other that long, but, I love you. I fu**ing love you!" I'll never forget that.
6He was!
7And I made sure of that...even though i was pretty sure I loved him before he told me, I didn't want to tell him first and scare him off.
I knew my man needed some time and space, and so I gave that to him and in the end it all worked out pretty good!
And even now, we don't say EVERYTIME we talk on the phone, or everytime the other person says it.
I told him that when he says it, he should mean it. He shoudln't feel like he has to say it that second because I did and vice versa. I want him to feel love when he says it, and for him to truely mean it with all his heart.
He was! My husband was definitely the initiative taker in our relationship.
8My husband was. We'd only been serious for a few weeks. I totally thought he just he was in love. He didn't pressure me and said he knew it was so soon and he didn't want me to say it back but that he needed to tell me how he felt. I finally told him a few months later.
A lot of guys just know, I think. They go home after a first date and say that's the woman I'm going to marry. I've seen this happen with many guy friends. Me and my girlfriends are much more cautious about our feelings..
9In my last relationship he was the first one. I had to wait him out because he had some "issues" he was dealing with and I didn't want to freak him out. I probably should have taken that as a sign that things weren't going to work out...
10I have only really been in love twice and both times I said it first.
11I actually got mad at my husband when I told him I was in love with him bc I didnt want him to say it right back without thinking about it- but he insisted that he didnt need to think about it. I just wanted to make sure he was really ready to say it to me- now looking back the whole thing (me getting mad) it just funny.
I have only really been in love twice and both times I said it first.
12I actually got mad at my husband when I told him I was in love with him bc I didnt want him to say it right back without thinking about it- but he insisted that he didnt need to think about it. I just wanted to make sure he was really ready to say it to me- now looking back the whole thing (me getting mad) it just funny.
He was and he was drunk--it was New Years Eve. I didn't respond for two weeks until he said it again without me coaxing or asking about that night. That way I knew it was the truth and not booze talking.
13He was...I felt it way b4 he said though.
14I honestly don't remember if it was me or my husband. We were actually trying to remember this the other day.
It was probably both of us at the same time. From the moment we met we were inseparable...still are...and probably after 3 weeks or so I know I started joking around when he would slam me (we love to make fun of each other, jokingly of course) and I would "love you too." It was probably sometime after that.
I knew I was too scared to say it first because I knew he was the one and I didn't want to screw it up!
With my previous longterm boyfriend, it was he who said it first. He was drunk, I was 18, and I didn't know what to say so I just kissed him.
15My husband was, he was 14 and I was 15 and he said it over the phone because we lived in different states and I was like whoa, don't you think it's a little soon for that? And he said no that he was in love and it took until we moved there for me to say it. And I realize now that we probably didn't know what it really meant at the time because I know now what it feels like to love him more than anything.
16He was!
Bizarrely he had already asked me to move in with him, the "I love you" came about a week later!!
=)
17HE was!! =D well actually before that he really hinted that he wanted to say it...he would say "I think I miss you" every time we were apart and we'd talk on the phone. And I'd say "I miss you too"...which I think made him feel better that I was into him
so eventually,
about 6 months into our relationship I had to go fly out of state for a family thing and I was going to be away from him for almost a week. That night he called when he got home from work
(bartending so it was like...1 or 2 am where I was, 3 or 4 where he was ) and he called me and just blurted out that he really missed me and he loved me so much and he couldn't wait for me to
come home. I said I love you too back (cuz I was feeling it for a while, but I didn't want to rush things...so I was relieved to hear it finally).
I had a smile plastered on my face for the rest of my trip LOL my family was probably wondering why...
18He was for sure. He also told me he wanted to marry me. We still aren't married all these years later, but neither of us are really, really ready. It's been a long road and we just love being together and no piece of paper will make that any more true. Now though, I say it much more often than he does. When he does, I know he really means it.
19hahahah! he told me first, but i didn't know what to say in return and i said, "thanks!"
20He was. But we had only been dating about 2 weeks at the time,so I thought he was crazy!
21Haven't said it yet! Eek!
22he was!
"he" always goes first regarding saying those three words
23I'm not currently in a relationship, but in my last relationship, he said it first.
24We'd been friends (who spent every spare moment together) for months. We had an argument, and suddenly he was just like "I LOVE YOU"... heh.
Sweet, but he ended up being a jerk. *sigh*
my boyfriend is very shy and i talked to one of his best friends before i did i said it, so i decided to say it first bc i knew he was too shy to do so
25in my current relationship, I was the one who said I love you first...and I still do love him to death...
26He was. n__n
27He was the one. And also almost everytime, he initiated it.
I'm the one who think my partner should know that I love him through my action.
28i was but it was HEAVILY implied by him.
29i was, blurted out in the middle of a fight--stunned us both. hee hee
30he did. 2 months into our relationship. i heard it and started to panic in my head. lol!
31i said "what?!" and he repeated it... hahaha!
32i just kissed him as a response
no idea. seems odd that i wouldn't remember but it would have been like 11 years ago that it first came up. i'm sure it was a big deal at the time, lol.
33I was.
It was a weird thing.. I literally couldn't hold it in any longer. I just had this overwhelming feeling inside, and I had to tell him.
Thankfully he felt the same way and said it back.
It was one of those "moments" for sure!
34he was!! and on the first date too... we had a thing going in year 9 and now in first year uni he said, i loved you in year 9, i love you and I'll love you forever!!
35wow, we haven't said it yet. Too soon to say or not. Judging from the comments I am to know now, but I don't.
I don't even know the meaning of the word!!!
36He said it after three days, i panicked and kicked him out...
37He till hasn't forgive me :s
He was. It was like our third date and we were making out in my house during Moulin Rouge. I'm thinking, oh.. it's only been a week. I said it back anyway. And I do now, so no harm
38He was. We were drunk at a party getting busy when he said it. I ignored it until the next day. I asked, "do you remember last night?" And without asking why I was asking the question he said, "yes, And I really meant what I said." So we talked for a bit and when I really felt he meant it, I said it back. We had only been dating seriously for 4 months, and dating casually before that for 6.
That was 4 years ago
39He said it really early in, but didn't think I heard him. I said it about two months later, and he gave me this huge hug and said it audibly.
40I'm not in a relationship now, but all my exes said it first.
41Well I knew that I loved him and wanted to say it but could not do it since I didnt want him to think that I was crazy or anything. So one night laying in bed he looked at me and said I have a secret for you! I LOVE YOU! And I started to cry and then said that I love you too. The rest of that night was history for us.
42he was brave enough to admit it before I did!
43i did! i wasn't a serious relationship type girl and when guys would say it wouldn't ever say it! but when i knew this time i just came out and said it! it felt so good to finally know how it felt to truly love someone! im glad i didn't throw it around before! it meant so much more!
44i did! i wasn't a serious relationship type girl and when guys would say it i wouldn't ever say it back! but when i knew this time i just came out and said it! it felt so good to finally know how it felt to truly love someone! im glad i didn't throw it around before! it meant so much more!
45sorry didnt mean to post that twice i tried to stop it so i could fix what i said! haha!
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